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DeFacto
April 27th, 2012, 02:04 PM
OK, so I like this girl in our class for a year now, but never mada a move, but recently we started talking a lot and spending more time together. There were some rumors this year that she had a crush on one of my best friends, but even though I don't have a clue on her relationship status I think she's single. She's friends with all the guys in our class and fools around with all of us, so it's hard to tell which one she likes most... I think I may have some chances, but I'm unsure.

So how could I find out if she likes me or not and should I continue with my approach?
Smeagol
April 27th, 2012, 02:06 PM
Well, are you spending more time with her than the other person that she might or might not have a crush on? Just carefully continue your approach and if she's taken or likes somebody else, then it's time to stop.
DeFacto
April 27th, 2012, 02:09 PM
About the same actually, though my time with her has increased quite a bit lately... As I said, it's hard to tell, but how could I find out if she's in a relationship with someone without making it too obvious I like her?
RCT109
April 27th, 2012, 05:39 PM
About the same actually, though my time with her has increased quite a bit lately... As I said, it's hard to tell, but how could I find out if she's in a relationship with someone without making it too obvious I like her?

ask her friends or hint at it occasionally
DeFacto
April 28th, 2012, 02:15 PM
Well, asking friends will probably result in her knowing anyway, so I'll try to start the topic and then "coincidently" ask her or something...
TDB95
April 28th, 2012, 10:48 PM
Just flirt as much as possible and read her body language as in how she looks at you and how she touches you compared to other guys and also what you guys talk about if its a friendly convo or if there a bit of a personal or sexual tone to it
BrassMonkey
April 29th, 2012, 12:18 AM
Just flirt as much as possible and read her body language as in how she looks at you and how she touches you compared to other guys and also what you guys talk about if its a friendly convo or if there a bit of a personal or sexual tone to it

I would say do the same^
DeFacto
April 29th, 2012, 06:23 AM
OK, but we have holidays now, so I'll have to wait until Thursday... :/ Meh.
DeFacto
May 3rd, 2012, 02:03 PM
Well, no major progress today, despite the fact that I got a pretty good feeling one week ago. Tomorrow we have a field trip, so it'll be a bit easier than regular lessons. Wish me luck. :D
DeFacto
May 4th, 2012, 02:34 PM
No big changes today either... :/ Let's wait for Thursday, when we won't have regular lessons again...
DeFacto
May 22nd, 2012, 01:15 PM
It seems I wasn't persuasive enough; no progress and she seems to like my best friend (not the one she supposedly had a crush on). I'll observe to see if there's really anything between them, then act properly... :/