Help please!!! Help today

[Tylerd01]

I need help badly. Ok so I am in a relationship with a girl that I love with all my heart. Ok so I had posted a status that she saw. I said in the status "Bored. Looking for someone to text or call. Add me." Well she is mad at me now cause of that. She loves me alot but she doesn't say I love you too back when I say I love you. I am seeing her tomorrow but I want to make her happy before she goes to bed. What do I need to do or say to make her happy before she goes to bed? Please I need help immediately.

[TeddyBearRock]

Google romantic hing to say and send her one of them, Worked for me.

[Dimitri]

Honestly i think you need to talk it out. You need to have an open line of communication. Sometimes honesty hurts but it is better than lying.

In my opinion I think she might have taken that status too seriously but then again I do not understand the minds of women.

Either way, you messed up and I suggest you talk it out.

Do not use words or sentences/statements such as "You blah blah blah" if you use those terms she will likely feel like you are verbally attacking her and then she will close you out and become defensive and you will never get this solved.

Ask her how she feels about it and have her explain it to you to make sure YOU understand exactly why SHE is upset, if she starts venting let her vent, it is easier to talk to someone who has let everything out but DO NOT attack her.

if you two love each other like you say you do then you should be able to talk about this in a civil manner and come to a conclusion between one another.

[Tylerd01]

But see I had tried that but it wont work I really need to know what to do before she goes to bed.

[Dimitri]

But see I had tried that but it wont work I really need to know what to do before she goes to bed.

Why before she goes to bed? Let her cool down and maybe she will come to some conclusion about something.

Just give it time bud.

[Tylerd01]

Im not going to stop texting her cause she gets worried. I need to know ASAP!! Please help me.

[Smeagol]

Well, tell her that you didn't mean that in a romantic way. But also, if you were bored and wanted to talk, she probably feels that she would be the one for you to talk to. Hopefully it all blows over, but just honestly tell her that you did that not for romantic reasons and that you're sorry and you should have called her instead of asking to talk to random people. Good luck!

[Dimitri]

Well, tell her that you didn't mean that in a romantic way. But also, if you were bored and wanted to talk, she probably feels that she would be the one for you to talk to. Hopefully it all blows over, but just honestly tell her that you did that not for romantic reasons and that you're sorry and you should have called her instead of asking to talk to random people. Good luck!

Bud, I have to agree with the above...

Give it time, sometimes time is the best healer.

[BrassMonkey]

I agree^

[Tylerd01]

Well I didn't stop talking to her and I am glad I didn't cause she did tell me the greatest news of all.

[codex]

Dear Male,

Tell your girlfriend you are sorry. An apology goes along way. And tell her that you didn't mean it in a flirtatious way that it was merely friendly and looking for friends to talk to. If she gets upset over little things like that imagine a bigger scenario.

Sincerely,
CODEX

[Smeagol]

Well I didn't stop talking to her and I am glad I didn't cause she did tell me the greatest news of all.

What great news did you recieve?

[Tylerd01]

Well she told me that she was pregnant and she was having a boy and a girl. But see I am not the babydaddy, the babydaddy is in prison for raping her. But she told me that she wants me to be the father.

[TheRock]

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