Guys w/ GF

[Polo2847]

So guys with girlfriends already, do you get a boner almost everytime you're near her, or at least once in a while? I kinda like this girl, but I'm not hard near her. Maybe it's because I don't really pay attention to butt/boobs like most guys do, more of her personality(I don't want to think of them as a "sex toy" if you know what I mean)...what's your insight on this?

[erickz3]

dnt worry..you only get a hard on by sexual arousal/intimacy...and if u dont stare at at her lady parts(highly doubt...)u wont get hard/aroused...but you might when and if you kiss/cuddle...although its still weird you are a 15 year old raging with hormones(just saying)..

[Elliott13]

happens sometimes, but mostly just when we make out

[elemental06]

I mean sometimes, when we are fooling around i do. But when we are just talking no lol.

[AZCowboy]

Sometimes, but I usually just get a boner around her when we are making out and fooling around really intensely, or if she gives me a lap dance, or gives me a hand job or gives me head, then yeah I get hard. Also, obviously I get a boner when we have sex. But if we are just talking or out at lunch or something, then no, I don't get a boner around her.

[Wakesetter03]

Generally when we spend time together, it's just like being with an amazing, awesome, *insert more adjectives here* friend, I'm not hard when she's around 100% of the time.
I only am really hard if we are fooling around, about to fool around, or I'm thinking about fooling around :)