Worthless

[WickedWeekend]

I have no girlfriend. Girls steer clear of me because I don't how to talk to them. Plus, I'm fat.

At my school, people are really accepting. However, they just give me more "help" than I want. I look helpless, I guess.

I'm fat. It's impossible to stop eating and start exercising. I'm ugly. I have horrible grades, but I've proved to be very smart. My mother yells at me and I'm sure she hates me for my Cs and Ds.

No wonder no one likes me. I'm worthless. Hopeless. Stupid.

[Desuetude]

Girls aren't the most important things in the world, especially not at 13 don't let that destroy you. There are people in their late teens that haven't had a girlfriend you have nothing to worry about, there is so much time for that.

I don't understand the problem with the second one. People are accepting, that's great. Think about how much harder things would be if they were judgemental. They give you too much help? Make it a positive instead of a negative, you have people that are there for you and willing to help you when you need it. Looking helpless is better than acting tough and trying to get through everything by yourself when really inside you're screaming out for someone to reach you. It's good that you've gone to people for help.

If you are dead set about losing weight then make yourself get up and do something. Make a timetable or scedual, make sure everything is planned out and you stick to it. Organisation and commitement is the only way anything will happen. If you don't like your grades, do something about it. You are able to change them, study harder, ask for help if you don't understand, it's all up to you as to how you go about things and there is nearly always a way to make it turn to your advantage.
Your Mum yells at you, lots of peoples do. You have different opinions and she tells you what to do. You aren't going to agree with every single thing she says so there will be friction between you, it's perfectly normal between children and parents.
Why are you so sure about that? Has she said it straight to you because if not then I don't think you can make that a fact. She's your Mum, she only wants you to do your best now so you can do well when on your own in the world. The amount of pressure parents put on us to do well can sometimes be overwhelming so if you don't like it then talk to her about it.

Stop thinking bad aout yourself, you say you're stupid yet before you said "I've proved to be very smart" give yourself some credit because you're just putting yourself down for no reason. You aren't hopeless because if you were you wouldn't get anything right EVER and that isn't true. You're not worthless, if you were gone I bet lots of people would be affected. Your family, people at school, you'd be suprised how much pain one persons release can cause.

You'll get through this, you might be on a down at the moment but in a day or two or maybe even earlier you should be back up again. Just remember that this wont last forever, there are things in the future to look forward to and things in the present that make you happy and smile, focus on the good not the bad. Glass half full, remember?

[Fractured Silhouette]

I agree with Nikki, girls are definitely not everything. Girls steer clear of me as-well. Not sure why. I don't know how to talk to them either. Just wait, you don't need a girlfriend at 13 years old anyway.

Look, getting help is a good thing, it's better than being sat there not knowing what to do. You'll see that getting help from people will allow to become better at the thing you needed help with and you'll become better at it and then you won't need help anymore.

Other than that just read ^that^ post because I have no idea about weight loss. But i'm positive that it isn't impossible, but it must be difficult. Just keep working at it.

Once again, just keep putting the effort in and you'll get better grades, I mean you said it yourself, you've proven to be smart.

Don't think your worthless, because it's not true. Just keep going and I'm sure it'll get better for you.