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neffer
April 26th, 2012, 06:33 PM
I wonder how to reckognize if my friend is bi/gay/courious. I know it will be hard, but idk what to think about him.

Desuetude
April 26th, 2012, 06:35 PM
Why should your opinion on him change depending on his sexuality? What are you expecting to happen?

neffer
April 26th, 2012, 06:42 PM
It won't change anything. He still will be my friend. But sometimes he acts like a stright guy, and then he acts like he is gay, and idk what to think, becouse I may have a little crush on him and if he was bi or gay I may have told him about my feelings. I don't want to get hurt if it turns out he is stright. It might ruin our friendship as well.

bborrego
April 26th, 2012, 07:02 PM
It won't change anything. He still will be my friend. But sometimes he acts like a stright guy, and then he acts like he is gay, and idk what to think, becouse I may have a little crush on him and if he was bi or gay I may have told him about my feelings. I don't want to get hurt if it turns out he is stright. It might ruin our friendship as well.

That's me at this current moment. I wonder about my friend's sexuality. when were w/ other people he acts like he's straight and all, but when it's me and him and sometimes a couple other friends, he acts kind of gay. he touches my legs and stuff and he says stuff like "I need to jizz" and "I got a boner." at random times. and one time during class he said to another friend of mine (girl) "im homoseual", but she didn't hear him. so that makes me wonder.

Desuetude
April 26th, 2012, 07:26 PM
Oh right. It would have been better if you put that in your original post, lol.
If you are close then maybe in a conversation when it's just the two of you try steering the conversation towards sexuality or something. I know it seems stupid but you could play truth and get it out that way.
If you really wanted you could just come out with "Are you Bi?" or to that effect and see how he reacts, if it's an over the top "Noooo" reaction then just tell him it's a joke. If it's a more calm or questioning response then you have a conversation starter and maybe an answer.

neffer
April 27th, 2012, 12:07 PM
I will try this. I hope it will give me the answer. Thanks! :)

Smeagol
April 27th, 2012, 12:18 PM
Good luck!