why do i still like my crush??

[XxAssasiNxX]

I thought i lost intrest in her when my freind told me she rejected me when he asked but i still like her for some reason. he said she was a bitch when she told him but i cqnt see the horrible persnality in her..shes really nice. shes also really prety in my opinion but i just dont know why.any sugesgions??:confused:

[JakeRS]

2 things,1.let me get this straight,you told your friend (that is a guy,right?) that he asks your crush whether she wants to be in a relationship with you,right? 2.try to write in some better English,you are from Melbourne and i am from Serbia and i write English better :D,anyway if i understood you correctly,you shouldn't feel weird about it,last year and a half i was a shy guy who never talked to girls and i fell in love with this girl and i talked to her online and i was a bit pushy and she rejected me (well,who wouldn't in a situation like that),now,a year and a half later,i am again in love with her,but this time she likes me,as a friend at least,before she never talked to me and if you read my thread you will see how my plan to get in a relationship with her is going,maybe i get together with her tomorrow,i hope at least,so all in all the thing is that you should never give up,no matter how much she doesn't like you,you should try to talk with her,to build a friendship of a sort and then do what i am doing.
edit:almost forgot,the first thing,if you asked your friend to ask her then you made a gigantic mistake,you should never,ever ask someone else to do it,because it shows that you don't have the courage to talk with her and that is a instant turn off.

here is the link for my thread: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=135510

[Desuetude]

2.try to write in some better English,you are from Melbourne and i am from Serbia and i write English better :D
Pahahahaha, sorry just had to laugh at that XD

Anyway, even after rejection you might not be over her. Just because someone turns you down it doesn't mean you instantly forget you ever liked them and are no longer attracted to them. It takes time and sometimes it could mean finding someone else as well so try looking for another girl, I know it might be hard to get over her but give it time and eventually you should.
Also,
if you asked your friend to ask her then you made a gigantic mistake,you should never,ever ask someone else to do it,because it shows that you don't have the courage to talk with her and that is a instant turn off.
Although that was a little over the top it basically summed it up. If you like a girl don't get someone else to go round asking people if she likes you or asking people to ask her out for you. Get out there and do it yourself. It could be a turnoff because girls like boys to be confident but also she could have taken it as a joke, you don't know what or how he told her and you have no control over it. In future I suggest you get up the courage to ask "her" (whoever she may be) out yourself.

With this girl you're obsessing over it doesn't mean you have to let go completely. You could still be friends, just say something like "Hey, I know you don't want to date but maybe we could hang out just as friends sometime?" I'm not really sure but you get the picture.
There are lots of nice, pretty girls you just need to find, meet and get to know them whilst also letting them get to know you that's the only way any relationship is going to start off.