Seriously Bad relationships with friends

[salivashot]

a couple of months ago me and my best mate just stopped being friends, simply because we fought so much, he lied to me and talked behind my back, and he couldn't trust me. He then left my school without even telling me. not only that but I've always been quiet and kept to myself and my couple of friends are continuously giving me shit for all sorts of reasons, they blame me for everything and I really don't think i've done anything wrong. I'm really nice to everyone yet they are cruel to me. I've beceom so depressed and just don't know what to do anymore.....

[Stryker125]

wow man, I'm really sorry. I don't really know what to tell ya. Maybe you could talk to your friend, and tell him you still want to be friends or something...if your friends are treating you that way, you should get new friends. Simple as that.

[Stronger]

I think you should talk to them one last time, but if they give you crap then it's time to move on from them. People treating you like shit, is something you don't need in your lie; that's trash. Do you have any other friends? Maybe you should focus on them more, or simply make new ones.

[Desuetude]

They shouldn't be treating you like this. Friends don't do that to each other. However people change, their personality, likes, dislikes, hobbies. A lot can happen especially during your teen years. Maybe you've just grown out of that friendship, moved on from each other. Do you know any of the reasons you'd fight? Would they be petty and about small things that shouldn't even matter because if so then it's likely you're just going your seperate ways.

If i'm honest though you don't need people lying and bitching about you behind your back, especially someone who is supposedly your "best friend". As much as it hurts (because I know it does) I think it's time to move on, try to make some new friends with people with interests that are the same as yours because those are the people you're likely to get along best with. Don't hang around with people that put you down and make you feel like shit because it just isn't worth it.

[boonsim]

He certainly doesn't sound like a quality friend. If your others friends have a problem with you from the falling out, consider that they may not be quality friends either.

[DerBear]

a couple of months ago me and my best mate just stopped being friends, simply because we fought so much, he lied to me and talked behind my back, and he couldn't trust me. He then left my school without even telling me. not only that but I've always been quiet and kept to myself and my couple of friends are continuously giving me shit for all sorts of reasons, they blame me for everything and I really don't think i've done anything wrong. I'm really nice to everyone yet they are cruel to me. I've beceom so depressed and just don't know what to do anymore.....

You should probably tell someone. Tell an adult or a trusted teacher. Anyone because it cannot be easy going through this alone.

I am sorry I cannot help by saying more than this. I truly hope that things do work out for you.

[Jet.]

You don't deserve to be treated like this. No one should be made to feel like shit, simply because 'friends' feel like it. Have you tried talking to them? What about wondering why they do it, do you let them walk over you? Stand up for yourself. I know it's easy for the rest of us to say, but maybe find new friends. It will be daunting to begin with, but you won't regret it. You will be respected for who you are... try hitting up a conversation with someone with the same interests as you? Join a club or something?

[botwa]

well I guess you just need to find better friends.
and break up with those you're currently with.

[Destructive Impulse]

Cut them out of your life and just wait for them to grow a pair and confront you and admit they're wrong