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lolz98
April 25th, 2012, 09:51 PM
I have a really hard time asking this 1 girl out ... idk why I get shy around her ... didin't happen before to another girl ... .. any advice on asking her out or spending more time with her?:what:

TurboDieselBandit
April 26th, 2012, 01:01 AM
The best advise I can give is to suggest you briefly rehearse what you'll say to her and then go do it shortly after. The more you think about it and question yourself, the more you'll psych yourself out and it will be that much more difficult to go through with it. When its time to talk to her, start with a little small talk, make sure the time is appropriate and then just ask, don't think about it before you say it, DO IT. Afterwards you'll realize there was nothing to worry about in the first place.

Stronger
April 26th, 2012, 08:35 AM
He above me, made some intresting point, defintly start off with small talk and work your way to the point you know you are ready to ask her out. Sort, sweet and to the point.

xXl0sth0peXx
April 26th, 2012, 09:14 AM
This isn't sexuality.

Teen Sexuality :arrow: Relationships and Dating

lolz98
April 26th, 2012, 05:59 PM
thx for the help

Desuetude
April 26th, 2012, 06:07 PM
You could rehearse what you're going to say. If i'm honest I say just go with the simple "how are you?" to start off a conversation and go from there. Get to know her and after a while you should start to feel more comfortable around her. If you want to ask her out keep it simple and maybe ask a few people to go instead of just the two of you then it wont be as awkward but you can still be out together. Just take it slow you don't have to rush into anything.

lolz98
April 27th, 2012, 01:32 AM
You could rehearse what you're going to say. If i'm honest I say just go with the simple "how are you?" to start off a conversation and go from there. Get to know her and after a while you should start to feel more comfortable around her. If you want to ask her out keep it simple and maybe ask a few people to go instead of just the two of you then it wont be as awkward but you can still be out together. Just take it slow you don't have to rush into anything.

thanks / I'll try:)