Is it wrong...?

[Tristar21]

ok, so im a 16 year old straight guy. my parents are divorced and i go to my moms often. her bf of 3+ years has two daughters. the older one is my age... over time she has become more comfortable and we talk about private things but really nothing nasty. i was really curious after a year or so... i was about 13-14. i was just discovering masturbation. when the girls came over the older one we can call L seemed to always end up sleeping near me. i coupdnt help but just look at her when she slept and eventually touched her. just a leg or arm and close to a boob. i knew it was wrong. she caught me and i said i did it on accident. then i thought i felt her doing it one time... time passed and eventually i found the joy of a girls scent. again knowing it was wrong i took her dirty panties and sniffed them, nothing more. i think she found out but didnt tell me. then she started bringing her friend over. the friend we say K made some odd comments.... like how much she was turned on that day. and that she was a REALLY heavy sleeper. they both again ended up sleeping near me. im not sure if this is all coincidence or they know... has this happened and what do people think, am i in the wrong? serious answers only please.

[CoolCaliGuy]

Nothings really wrong, but keep it more lowkey.
Also try not to mess with family (even if their not blood)

[Nolf]

You're not related, and K's comment definitley seems intentional.
Do what you want, but maybe ease into it. If this girl found it creepy, she would talk to you

[Abyssal Echo]

Seems fine to me you're not related and since your mom is not married to him your not family either. but yeah I would still keep it on the down lo. The general public might not be as open minded as I am

[Tristar21]

yeah i stopped doing everything no matter how open it seems. i know she knows about the touching from so long ago and its pretty obvious she wants me to again, but it might be because she lokes it or because she wants to catch me for sure. we have no blood relation what so ever, my mom and her dad have told us both (seperately) that if we wanted to date they dont mind at all. but if she wants anything she wants a secret thing with benefits. idk if i do though... but i want to find out if she does. and asking her seems akward... any ideas on that?

[Saxophone 44]

Quoting from Avenged Sevenfold: "MUST'VE STABBED HER 50 FUCKING TIMES!!! I can't believe it, RIPPED HER HEART OUT RIGHT BEFORE HER EYES!!! Eyes over easy, eat it, eat it, eat it! She was never this good in bed even when she was sleepin, now she's just so perfect I've never been quite so fucking deep in" her. That said that girls are good in bed while they're sleeping. An idea for K... But you should just be like "I'm a little curious about some stuff... Do you think you could help me out?" very nonchalantly. As for stabbing K 50 fucking times, that's a joke. Don't do that. There is a slight possibility that her homies at school might not like that.

[Short Circuit]

I am just wondering why you mum and her boyfriend, would let teenage kids of the opposite sex, sleep near each other, its just so wrong as "things" could happen like you described

[Tristar21]

thats pretty offensive. no things happened worse than ive said. my mother isnt a bad person. usually she falls asleep and so do my younger siblings... they play video games in my room and fall asleep. so i go to sleep on the couch and L and K dont want to sleep in their room, they want to watch tv. so we all go sleep on the couches and talk and watch tv.

[gogo123]

I see nothing rong with this.

[Giles]

Well the whole sleeping thing is just crazy, no idea why you would sleep together, in the same room maybe... but not in the same bed. Also, touching her or taking advantage of her in any way when she (they?) are asleep is just wrong on so many levels, they can't stop you so you can't know that they want you to do what you are. Aside from that there's the sniffing her underwear, whilst there's nothing necessarily wrong with that it is still an invasion of her privacy, so I strongly recommend that you don't do anything whilst she's sleeping and don't touch her underwear.

As for the relationship/incest/friends situation - I don't really see anything wrong with this. It might seem a little strange to some people because you're 'siblings' but there is a difference between actual siblings and step-siblings; as others have said though, it's probably best not to be too overt with this relationship as it stands, it's not exactly a common thing to happen - at least not in public.

[randomme]

Your not related so nothing that wrong but she is kinda you sister so wouldn't do anything to serious.

[Wayne92]

The boyfriend's daughter is a iffy situation but the daughter's friend is fair game.

[jesusogpaign]

Quoting from Avenged Sevenfold: "MUST'VE STABBED HER 50 FUCKING TIMES!!! I can't believe it, RIPPED HER HEART OUT RIGHT BEFORE HER EYES!!! Eyes over easy, eat it, eat it, eat it! She was never this good in bed even when she was sleepin, now she's just so perfect I've never been quite so fucking deep in" her. That said that girls are good in bed while they're sleeping. An idea for K... But you should just be like "I'm a little curious about some stuff... Do you think you could help me out?" very nonchalantly. As for stabbing K 50 fucking times, that's a joke. Don't do that. There is a slight possibility that her homies at school might not like that.

That song is about necrophilia, and 'even when she was sleeping' is referring to the closest she's ever been to dead, sleeping. Anyways, I'd say go for it, but slowly, and let her kinda lead the way and initiate.

[Tristar21]

i have been extremely careful and try not to do anything wrong with L. she came over last weekend and looked amazing... i will say again my mother and her father (they are dating but nothing more) have both said it would be okay if we dated. i tried to be polite and not do anything wrong because i respect her and all, but i couldnt help a glance or two. the night she came over she chose to sleep on the couch. i gave her a blanket and pillow and sat on the other couch and we talked and watched tv. she fell asleep and i looked at her but mostly just watched tv. the blanket started to fall off so i grabbed it and fixed it, in the process touching her leg... but nothing bad. now it got weird... im not sure if she was sleeping or not but she turned and put her butt right in my direction. after a while she layed on her back with her legs fairly spread open and her hands up. i still resisted and didnt do anything but then she put a hand in her pants and lifeted one leg so high it looked impossible to still be sleeping... i asked if she was awake. no answer. i asked if she wanted me to leave. no answer. i asked if she wanted me to do something. no answer. but shortly after she spread her legs very wide still with one hand in her pants and one leg high up on the couch. i was too scared to touch her but i went to the bathroom and mbated to it. when i came out i said "if u wanted me to do something u shouldve said so, goodnight" and left. i heard her move as soon as i left and she had returned ro a comfortable position. maybe i am imagining the coincidences here but i really need some advice. what should i do?!

[Lego]

Be her friend with benefits ask if shes curious like you are thats sending a pretty strong signal in my opinion dont waste this oppurtunity. Think how you feel about her be friends for now. Ask her to a movie if you want. But she wants something

[MJohn]

That's hawt.

[daniel1009]

I wouldnt say its wrong. I just dont think you should continue doing it (unless she tells you to)

[Tristar21]

so i dont have any intention of doing anything with L, i wouldnt mind but i dont want to force anything on her. but she just seems so open and it might just be me but it seems like she really wants me to do something. i want to ask her about it but i have done things in the past that if she doesnt want what i think she does could get me into alot of trouble if i tell her. so how can i ask her or figure out what she wants to do for sure without it seeming really obvious?

[Kaiboi69]

Just ask her.

[logic]

In my opinion there are a couple options. If you are really comfortable with your step sister then just come out with it and ask her. Most girls won't get as offended as you might think. She is probably thinking the same things you are. If you are curious about what her breasts feel like ask if you can feel them. Ease into the topic with some small talk that leads into the conversation. As for K the only suggestion I would make is to maybe ask her over to watch a movie or work on homework or something like that and just ask really friendly. Put you arm around her when watching the movie or something. If she doesn't like it she will let you know. Nothing to be embarrassed about. Its what happens. If she doesn't you could try and kiss her during a romantic scene or something and see how things go. Again don't be embarrassed if it doesn't work out.

[joshduder]

Ask her to allow u to sleep with her

[GreatestAffection]

L replaced herself with K so that she wouldnt have to be touched by you.