Only being attracted to straight girls.

[Abnormal]

I have a serious problem. Lately any girl that I'm attracted to in any way has turned out to be straight/homophobic. There seriously isn't anything more painful than that. You want to love them, but you can't because their sexuality gets in the way! I could try and open them up to the idea, but that would feel really manipulative and I don't like that feeling. Does anyone else have the same issues with always crushing on straight people of the same sex or am I all alone in this?

[Smeagol]

Hmmm... I've only crushed on one girl who wasn't straight... I guess I don't see very many lesbians/bi people out and about, so I tend to crush on straight people :C

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

Well yeah, crushing on straight people kinda sucks. Often you don't know who is gay/bi, so it can make things... awkward.

[Biscuithead13]

I have a serious problem. Lately any girl that I'm attracted to in any way has turned out to be straight/homophobic. There seriously isn't anything more painful than that. You want to love them, but you can't because their sexuality gets in the way! I could try and open them up to the idea, but that would feel really manipulative and I don't like that feeling. Does anyone else have the same issues with always crushing on straight people of the same sex or am I all alone in this?

Yessss I do :/ I'm in love with this guy but he says he wants to be straight and they way he would talk to me and I'd talk to him was making him bi/gay. It sucks :(

[plebble]

I know that there are A LOT of bisexual teenage girls... you could be lucky and they might be bi, who knows

[Callie]

I know that there are A LOT of bisexual teenage girls... you could be lucky and they might be bi, who knows
The problem is that girls talk, so if you say anything to them about how you feel, everyone will know about it unless they are bi too and understand what you're feeling. :what:

[Lovemeorleaveme]

Abnormal if u need somebody to talk to feel free to PM me, I can relate with you 100% on this subject

[Mortal Coil]

The fact of the matter is, most people are straight. I'm not sure if this is accurate, but apparently only 1 in 20 girls is a lesbian, and I don't know about bisexuality. The point I'm trying to make is that you're going to be attracted to more straight girls than bi/les girls, simply because there are more straight girls than bi/les girls.

[Lovemeorleaveme]

The fact of the matter is, most people are straight. I'm not sure if this is accurate, but apparently only 1 in 20 girls is a lesbian, and I don't know about bisexuality. The point I'm trying to make is that you're going to be attracted to more straight girls than bi/les girls, simply because there are more straight girls than bi/les girls.

A fact that is sad but true

[Notateen4muchlonger]

What's weird is I have been on the opposite end of this twice. Two different guys have liked me and I like girls. I don't know how much perspective I can add. I'm not homophobic, so I don't have a problem with it.

Ask me something if you want perspective from my end, I guess.

[Black.Veil.Brides]

thats a normal thing. it happens, i myself have never experienced this because i am straight.. but there is always going to be crushes like that. i lived next door to a lesbian who had mistaken me as bi. it just happens. no worries :-)

[LiamC]

I'm a guy but I know how you feel! All the guys I've ever had a crush on are straight, I'm only 15 so I know there is time but sometimes it feels like only straight people can be hot :p

[crisel]

Having a crush on someone is just normal. For me, crush means you idolize that person.

[Haleyzmont]

Yes. I have pretty good "Gaydar" but i just fall in love with the girl i know is straigh and i try to force myself out of it because it's so painful knowing there is NO way you could possibly get with the girl both have mutual feelings and it breaks me :(.

And i understand how you feel about the manipulation. Its not satisfying because you know that the other person is straight and just being curious with you so its the same lonely feeling.

[LatinaVivit]

Oh absolutely this is my problem. All the attractive guys that I know are straight and it really annoys me!

[jennahazy98]

I'm worried about this because I think I like a girl who's been a friend, but have no idea how she feels and don't know how to bring it up. I'd be mortified if she didn't like me back!

[Magnus Bane]

this has happened to me tons of times alot of the guys i have a crush on in my school are all str8 so your not the only one

[ItsChelsea]

The problem is that girls talk, so if you say anything to them about how you feel, everyone will know about it unless they are bi too and understand what you're feeling. :what:

This is exactly what I'm dealing with right now. I want so bad to explore more with girls, but I'm so afraid it will turn into drama, and I don't want that at all.