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Niceguy11
April 25th, 2012, 04:29 AM
I'm really depressed!!!
i cant find my true love!
I've Got Some Family Problems!
I Have To Focus On My Lessons But I Cant!
How Can I Heal my self?:(

Mortal Coil
April 25th, 2012, 04:33 AM
It really helps to write a blog. It's less girly than a diary and helps you vent. As you can see, I've updated my blog a LOT.
It won't make the problems go away, but it will help you let your anger/frustration out.

FullyAlive
April 25th, 2012, 06:46 AM
This is more suitable here
Cutting & Self harm :arrow2: Depression loss & greif

Okay to start with, you're a teenager you don't need to find your one true love. Sure it can be nice to date but it's not a necessity to being happy. Dating and love will happen eventually you just need to try and not get to hung up on it.
It might also help perhaps if you explained your family problems so I can try and give more relevant responses. As for concentrating on your classes and work that doesn't always come naturally to people particularly if you already have other problems. Maybe look at how you are working, do you sit and chat or get on with it. Who do you sit by distracting friends or ones who encourage you?

You don't need to heal yourself you just need to take each of your problems and find some solutions :)

iallen
April 25th, 2012, 11:36 PM
maybe see someone or talk to a friend?

Noxail
April 26th, 2012, 12:40 AM
I'm really depressed!!!
Okay, lets pause here. So by "really depressed" do you mean just feeling down and worried, or do you mean being diagnosed by a health care provider feeling suicidal. It's important to know what someone means by "I'm depressed"

i cant find my true love!
If you are dealing with depression, this is the least of your problems. And honestly, you don't find true love, true love finds you, It'll come in time buddy, just hang in there.

I've Got Some Family Problems!
Don't we all? If your family issues are abuse related I strongly suggest contacting your local Socal Services and filing a child abuse report, otherwise, I can't give you advice if you don't go into detail. Sorry.

I Have To Focus On My Lessons But I Cant!
Sadly, I cannot help much here, as lessons arn't really my thing, but I suggest making sure your study environment is suitible for studying. No lights too bright, no pets of siblings around, no loud music, no overstuffed chairs, no phones or computers (unless they're needed for your lessons)

How Can I Heal my self?:(

I suggest a tablespoon full of "I can do it"
Three quarts of "I love myself"
A mass of support
and a carton of Ice-cream.

Niceguy11
April 26th, 2012, 08:21 AM
tnx to all ...
my family problem gonna make me worry...my dad have Secret girlfriend and i know it when my dad was taking shower and i checked out his phone sms.What should i do with it ?(My Mom dont know anything)
whatever i wanted from him he did for me and his nice to me!THAT FUCKIN BITCH IS STEELING MY DAD's Heart.
And I think my Dad is Preparing for marriage with her(My mom is nice woman too)
this problem had a bad effect on my lessons and my mood!
I Have too study a lot to Get IELTS License and get out of my Country(I Cant see and Progress in iran)
i have good friends but i think its better i dont tell them