It would be easier if...

[Smeagol]

Ok. I've been saying that I was a homoromantic asexual. Which is probably true. But I wonder sometimes. It would be so much easier if I was biromantic, or heteroromantic. I know that I'm not heteroromantic because I've definitely fallen for girls *sighs*. And yes, I've crushed on guys a bit, but the only time it was serious was with this guy who was really funny and flamboyant and everything anybody could possibly want. And he turned out to be gay. Go figure.

But my life would be easier if I liked guys. Maybe I do, sometimes I catch myself thinking about a random guy I see. But it's mainly girls. What am I, and what should I do?

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

You're just you.

You don't need to be certain about anything, no one should rush the process of self discovery, let alone you yourself.

Just give yourself some 'you time' and enjoy yourself; life can be bothersome for teens without having to figure out or sexual identities too. I always find that when I do something that I enjoy, or that's relaxing (and distance myself from thoughts about more serious things), I'm in a better frame of mind to contemplate shit that I'd otherwise try and push out of my mind.