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cutupprincess
July 4th, 2007, 05:47 AM
hello,

i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 yrs and recently it hasnt been going well and felt that it was time to end it and move on. everytime i try and talk to him about it, he always comes out with
' if you leave me i will kill myself because my life isnt worth living if your not in it with me '
my dad said it is emotional blackmail and its emotional abuse. i dont know what to do

help me!!

Rawrbaby
July 4th, 2007, 05:55 AM
well he could be lying to his self so ........... but ya should try to mend and repair those broken parts yes try to fix the relationship furst if ya want to but if ya cant i say just go on wit ya life and if he kills himself than he just does that is his loss not yours hope this helps

cutupprincess
July 4th, 2007, 05:58 AM
i would feel so guilty if he did though.

Maverick
July 4th, 2007, 08:25 AM
Your dad is correct. You shouldn't have to stay in a relationship like that. No one deserves that. What you need to do is talk to your boyfriends parents and see if you can get him some psychological help. You can never be too careful and this way he can be with a professional who can help him deal with the break up.

Camazotz
July 7th, 2007, 10:07 PM
Yeah, just tell someone like therapist for him(after his parents).

heartagram72
July 10th, 2007, 11:36 AM
nicely ask him whats bothering him.
if he really loves u he would tell u
if he doesnt, just tell a counselor, his parents, any1 hoo could help