He's doing it again

[JackShephard]

I have an older post abut this. Pretty much, my friend is acting a little "close." Today, I was sitting on the bus with him today and I fell asleep. Yet again, he's leaning on my shoulder (which is no big deal for me) it's just got to get out in the open so we can talk about it. He also moved his hand on the inside of my leg (which I kind of liked to be honest.) There's no doubt in my mind, he's at least currious and has a thing for me. How do I talk to him about it. It's almost as if we wants me to know. But I can't be sure.

[Desuetude]

Try and bring up the subject of sexuality and slip it in. It will always be awkward however you try it, just let him know that you're okay with him being whoever he wants regardless of his sexuality. That's what most people are looking for, acceptance.

[knightmare]

Are you gay or bisexual? If you are then it should be easier to talk to him about it. He obviously has a thing for you if he's doing things like this, believe me, it's hard to deliberately put your hand on the thigh of your friend and try not to make it awkward.

If you're uncomfortable with his actions you should tell him, if you're comfortable with it, (and if you kind of like it), you should find out what his sexuality is and explore any possibilities of a relationship.

[Stryker125]

Just kind of bring up sexuality in conversation or something, and see how he reacts. Let him know that you'll still like him and want to be friends regardless of sexuality, blah blah blah. Or you could go the bold route and just straight out ask him. "Hey, you know you put your head on my shoulder and touch my leg? Are you trying to tell me something?" Or, since you kind of like you could just tell him that you like it when he does that stuff. Completely up to you. Either way, there's bound to be a bit of awkwardness. But since you're friends, it should be fine.