How my boyfriend is being different

[kaitlynn96]

For 2 months now my boyfriend been so mean to me sometimes,this started when i went to the hostipal with my sister when i couldnt talk to him..Then everything went down hill he start lieing to me start smoking again..He doesnt get that he is hurting me bad i told him but i dont think he listing i no he loves me..But i think when he started to hang around his friends again he changed so much..Like if i ask him to say home he would say no but if someone calls him up while im on the phone and ask to hang out he says yes i fill so left out now..It feels like im losing the person i love the most and i dont never want to lose him..He was the sweetest guy that i ever meant but a lot of things changed i want my old baby back..On the 26th this month we will be together for 1 year..What should i do?? I tired almost everything if i say one thing wrong he yells at me if if i say something wrong again he will stop talking to me, he has his friends tell me whats wrong not his self..I just want to be first again not his friends What should i do???????????:confused:

[Derek_001]

for 1 thing baby u live 15 miles away n i only have a ride to see u on the weekends and my friends only live a mile across this town (walking distance) and u want me to sit at home n do absolutely nothing but talk to u i have things to do like for a JOB so i can make money to buy u ur ring u want ive got to sell this gun tomorrow n take this other stuff to elk i cant stay at home 24/7 its not like u stay home all the time when ur out wit that bitch u call a friend.... So tell me WHAT do I Do????

[kaitlynn96]

I dont leave this town all the time..I just want more time with you..:(

[Dimitri]

Okay, both of you listen here, please...

Hun, first off you are only 16, how long have you been together? Either way...you are young and I would suggest that you both sit down and talk this out.

The goal to having a successful relationship is to be open and talk to each other. I work two jobs and I go to school (college) full time and I have to study my ass off. I see my boyfriend at school for an hour or two but then we do not see each other until the weekend.

TO BOTH of you, this takes an equal effort from both parts and if the ring you are talking about is an engagement ring you have a lot to think about first. Get an education before you do anything else.

Hun, I go out with my friends quit often and that is because my boyfriend lives 15 miles away, in a different city but we see each other on weekends, go to the movies and get some dinner. If he cannot be with you he needs to do something, you cannot expect him to sit at home.

Also, if you are both upset about the friends that each other associate themselves with then you need to realize that, that it is always going to happen. Josh does not like a few of my friends and then there are some of his that I cannot stand. IT HAPPENS.

It sounds to me that you both need to sit down and talk this out with someone who is an independent party.

Being in a relationship is not easy, it requires give and take from both sides...

I know that you are not a male and male relationship but let me tell you it is the same thing...

Feel free to let me know if you would like to talk about this, either of you.

[Derek_001]

and how often do u come see me???

[kaitlynn96]

i try all the time its kinda hard when your mom and dad wont let you do a lot of stuff im sorry babe

[Derek_001]

well its been hard for me too id rather see u than talk on the phone...

[kaitlynn96]

then come see me more and get a place here or something

[Derek_001]

i told u i dont want to get a house in that town....

[ImCoolBeans]

Lets keep your personal arguments out of the forums.