Definition of "Gay"?

[Renall]

Hey guys, first of all, I'm new here.

I guess I would say, I'm straight (I think) but also BiCurious.

Now, I"m just wondering, what IS the true definition of being Straight or Gay? I see them as just titles, but as teenagers, is the definition written in stone? Thanks.

[StoppingTime]

I never like people labeling themselves until they are 100% sure of their sexuality. But yes, there are "true" meanings to those words.

Homosexual (gay): When someone (male or female [lesbian in this case]) is both physically and emotionally attracted to the same gender.

Heterosexual (straigt): When someone (male or female) is attracted both physically and emotionally to the opposite gender.


Most teens go through a "curious" phase, when they are usually slightly/moderatly attracted to the same sex in a sexual way. This is usually just to compare, and "experiment." This phase generally passes within a few years. If it doesn't then that person may be bisexual/gay. Only they can tell you for sure.

Read this (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=125182) for more information.

[Renall]

Ah, thanks so much.

But, how can I be sure? Am I too young to figure it out? Should I just experiment my life?

[StoppingTime]

Well, how old are you?

There's nothing wrong with experimenting, and it can help you figure out your sexuality, possibly.
Remember, this can ruin a friendship, so don't go about it lightly,
and personally, I don't like the idea of it. There are other things/factors that can help you figure it out.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

I think you'll get better results here.

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