My girlfriend's mustache

[atomsmasher]

My new girlfriend is awesome, and I really like her. But, she has a really faint mustache, that really gets to me when We're making out. How can I tell her to have it removed? Without hurting her feelings.

[RCT109]

well does she get offended easily
if not just bring it up but nicely

[JakeRS]

Try to tease her about it,to be funny or something,because if you tell her with a serious look she might think that you find it way to ugly or something and that isn't good thing.

[botwa]

Try to tease her about it,to be funny or something,because if you tell her with a serious look she might think that you find it way to ugly or something and that isn't good thing.

honestly teasing is a bad idea.
serious talk is way better

[Dimitri]

Try to tease her about it,to be funny or something,because if you tell her with a serious look she might think that you find it way to ugly or something and that isn't good thing.

Hey man, not cool...

In my experience with girls I would have to say that if you are just straight forward with her that she will be more receptive to it.

The last thing you need if for her to become self-conscious and unfortunately many young ladies are so that doesn't help either. Just be nice and honest, if you have a good relationship then you should be able to talk openly about it.

[Desuetude]

If you say something it will make her so self concious. I know that's not what you want to hear but she'll be worrying about everything. Definitly don't tease her because that's a very bad idea.
If you really find it that bad then have a serious talk somewhere private about it, don't do it in public or she might be worrying the rest of the night. Hopefully she'll understand then maybe she might decide to bleach it or something (please encourage her not to shave because it will only make the hair darker when it grows back.)

[HaydenM]

Unless she has a full on magnum p.i. I wouldn't be commenting unless necessary. Girls can be very overly self conscious and this wouldn't help at all.

[Qunt]

Get your 'guy friend' to tell your girl she has a mustache, tell him too say it straight up and walk away, and than pretend to goto your friend and yell at him why'd he said that. Haha I did something like that with a friend thats a girl.

[boonsim]

Get your 'guy friend' to tell your girl she has a mustache, tell him too say it straight up and walk away, and than pretend to goto your friend and yell at him why'd he said that. Haha I did something like that with a friend thats a girl.

Better, get one of her girl friends to tell her.

[Weeping_Angel]

Better, get one of her girl friends to tell her.

Get your 'guy friend' to tell your girl she has a mustache, tell him too say it straight up and walk away, and than pretend to goto your friend and yell at him why'd he said that. Haha I did something like that with a friend thats a girl.

Instead of doing that, why don't you tell her straight out? If you are really in a serious relationship, than you wouldn't be such of a wussy that you can't tell her that a mustache is bothering you. Tell her privately, but don't tell her to shave, because as MyObvlion has so correctly stated, it will only make the hair grow longer and darker the next time around. Don't force her to do anything and research effective and quality ways to remove the mustache.

[thinblueline]

suggest it to her that she tries to get rid of it. She should trust what you say..

[Weeping_Angel]

suggest it to her that she tries to get rid of it. She should trust what you say..

If she doesn't want to remove her mustache, she doesn't have to listen to him. She doesn't have to trust what he says, only take it into account, and even that she doesn't have to do. It's her body, and she can do what she wants.

[LatinaVivit]

You owe it to her to be honest with her so I think you should just outright tell her....with a kind tone of course haha

[Rayquaza]

When you tell her, tell her in a quiet room with both of you, and when you tell her to remove it, really REASSURE her that you still find her attractive, and that you really love her. Tell her it's faint, and if she wants to then she doesn't have to. Chances are that because you've told her, she will :)

[Fiction]

Okay, I wouldn't mention it to her at all. You can either deal with it, or leave her. Really telling her will just make her self-concious and make her feel terrible.

[Love.Hate]

I wouldnt tell her, it will hurt her and make her feel dreadfully self concious. Does it really worry you all that much?

I agree with Kathy here, surely something this small wont affect how you feel about her