Idk what to do!!!!!!

[mrmooers]

Ok so I just got put into private school coming from a semi-bad school. When I came to the school I honestly just wanted to make friends. I met this girl in English, Jessica, and that is my only class with her out of eight :( well anyway she is really pretty and everything like the whole package. She would always tell me about some guys she knew from my old school and she kinda liked him. That quickly faded and I actually started liking her by now she was my best friend I liked her for a while then she got asked out by this one guy, Ryan, and she said yes and for a while all she ever talked about was how much she liked him and stuff. So I moved on to a new girl and it never got anywhere. Then Jessica was like help me with Ryan he's not a very good boyfriend. (he was a terrible boyfriend be rely talked to her or anything) so I got his number from her and started texting him telling him what to do and stuff. In all of this stuff he became one of my best friends. Turns out she is his first girlfriend ever. So he eventually started getting better and now they have been going out for like two months well they had their first kiss and junk and today they had a date and were like straddling and stuff (no like oral just like intense making out) I feel like completely confused about everything and I think I am in love with her and have been the entire time and I wish that I could be Ryan :( well afterwards she called me and told me all about it.... She loved it. Then she started asking me personal questions about like how far I've gone and stuff like that and so I asked her back that if she wasn't dating Ryan and I would and her out what would she say. She said yes :) I'm just so confused about how I feel and I just need advice of what to do.

[mrmooers]

Btw her exact response was, "Ya I would because your so sweet and any girl would be lucky to have U"

[Mind Blank]

I'm not you, so I don't know how you'd like to handle it, but if she's with somebody else, no matter what she says to you, let it be; move on. However, if she, in the future, or now, decides to break up with "Ryan", then it's already clear she thinks highly of you, and it makes sense for you to be with her.

The problem there, is that you're now friends with "Ryan", right? Well, if you value your friendship, and she breaks up with him, you shouldn't go out with her. If she tells you she's thinking of breaking it off with him for you, convince her not to. While you might have feelings for her, he clearly does too.

It's better if the three of you are on some level of friendship.
Don't let shit get complicated.

[ashdyn]

I know the situation sucks. But all you can do it let things go on naturally. I mean you gave her bf advice on how to be a better boyfriend and that really sucks...but you did what I would have done. It hurts but the only thing you can really do is try to move on. If they break up then go for it. But while their dating try to explore other possibilities. It'll be hard to invest emotionally into a relationship with someone else but you have to at least give it a shot. It's better than being miserable waiting for her to break up with him.