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Tannerbolton
April 22nd, 2012, 11:11 PM
First off, I am 15 and bisexual. I am not flamboyant...yuck...and I am more sexually attracted to males than to females. None of my family knows! Is there anyone else in my situation? Just looking for someone to talk to :)

Jupiter
April 22nd, 2012, 11:12 PM
Well, I am almost the same way, but I am actually attracted more to females.

Coolboi
April 22nd, 2012, 11:20 PM
I'm bi an don't no yet if gay or st8 but date girls an like boys to .
might be a puberty thing ?
the family don't no so I'm good !

Tannerbolton
April 22nd, 2012, 11:26 PM
Well its hard to explain. My attraction to males is more sexual, my attraction to females is more sentimental and emotional, if that makes sense :S

Desuetude
April 23rd, 2012, 12:30 PM
Well its hard to explain. My attraction to males is more sexual, my attraction to females is more sentimental and emotional, if that makes sense :S
I know i'm not male and nor am I Bi but I thought your situations sounds more Bi-curious than Bi.
Bi-curious- One who is physically attracted to the same sex and emotionally and physically attracted to the opposite sex but unsure of their orientation. People who are bi-curious are interested in both sexes, but this does not necessarily make them bi-sexual. Bi-curiosity be a phase or a short interest about experimenting with either sex.
Taken from the sexuality sticky (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1551052#post1551052) (maybe it would be a good idea to take a look in there?)
If you searched in the sexuality forum Im sure you would find so many others in your situation. You're not alone with those feelings, I can assure you that :)

Loverocksyah
April 23rd, 2012, 12:42 PM
im basically the same but my parents know they have asked me about it but i just deny it.

StoppingTime
April 23rd, 2012, 01:22 PM
I'm not bi, but I'm going to add this.

Well its hard to explain. My attraction to males is more sexual, my attraction to females is more sentimental and emotional, if that makes sense :S
This is important. It is possible, like Nikki said, that you are "bi-curious."
You aren't 100% sure of your sexuality yet, and this is most likely due to puberty hormones.
You could just want to "compare and experiment" with other guys, and that's normal. You may not have an actual attraction to them. If you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc... you have both a sexual and emotional attraction to that gender.
So, if you feel like it's just sexual with guys right now, then you may just be curious. This is completely normal, and many guys go through this stage.

Cognizant
April 23rd, 2012, 01:35 PM
Well, I am almost the same way, but I am actually attracted more to females.

I am the same way, but I don't think it differs than if I liked boys more.

Tannerbolton
April 23rd, 2012, 05:15 PM
Thanks for all the help guys! I will definately look into that sexuality forum :)