I need some advice about a girl.

[Tristar21]

I am a straight 16 year old guy. ive only dated a few times and both ended with them dumping me because they just didnt like me the waythey thought. both apparently reggretted it byt whatever... i am really self concious and almost never flirt but a friend told me to talk with her niece saying she was really nice. she is and an amazing person. we talked for hours on fb and texting everyday for almost a week. i saw a few pics of her and vice versa. she is very beautiful but she doesnt think so. she actually likes me and i like her back but we were supposed to see eachother this last weekend but her dad said no. she had gotten in trouble. now we have to wait and she feels bad and doesnt think this weekend will work either because shes so busy. i want to tell her sooo much that it is okay. and make her believe she is as beautiful as she really is. and shes starting to but its hard without meeting her. can anyone give me anyadvice on this at all? just to talk about it would help so much. thanks. :)

[RCT109]

You said you talk to her 24/7 (almost) so thats is good until you meet her face to face, in my opinion that is.
But if you think it wont then by all means say what you were thinking of doing

[Desuetude]

Seeing as you both like each other and seem really close things shouldn't be too much of a problem apart from her Dad. I don't think meeting her will make her feel like she is anymore pretty. You just need to keep assuring her and if you do meet her i suggest complimenting her about certain features instead of as a whole.
Do you know why her Dad wouldn't let you meet, I mean maybe if you went round her house or near her he would be more open to the idea? Sometimes fathers can be very protective of their daughters, you just need to show him you're genuine and that you're not going to hurt her.

I say try to meet up but I wouldn't suggest deceiving her father, you want to try and make him trust you and that's not the way to go about it. Otherwise just talk more on facebook and text. Skype could be an idea? You could even Video chat on that which could progress your friendship/relationship. I would talk to her about what you are because if you leave it you could be thinking different things and you need to be on the same page if you want any type of relaionship to work.

[Tristar21]

thanks very much nikki. we do know that we like eagcother but we want to wait before dating. ya know meeta few times. the reason her dad said no is just because hes strict and she was busy. im sure we will be able to see eachother soon. i will trythe compliments on specific things too thats a great idea thanks for all the help.