My gf is shy

[kitkat]

what can i do to get my gf to not be shy around ppl she wont even kiss me cause she is afraid ppl will assassinate her

[Desuetude]

She's afraid people will assassinate her?

Maybe she just has a thing about PDA's. I wouldn't force her to do anything that would make her feel uncomfortable, maybe just respect that she has her own views about this. Once your relationship has progressed she might become more open to the idea? It might just be time she needs. Be patient.

[Smeagol]

She is afraid that people will assassinate her? Well, being in a female couple certainly is sadly frowned upon by lots of cultures. Maybe you ought to just kiss her in less public places first.

[kitkat]

we havnt kissed and ppl would actually try and kill us -_- like legit kill

[Desuetude]

we havnt kissed and ppl would actually try and kill us -_- like legit kill
Well maybe that's why. If you get comfortable with each other first and don't rush things when in a secluded place then maybe she will feel more comfortable when showing affection in a public place.
You just need to assure her that nothing will happen to her. Don't make fun of her or make her feel bad because that's not the way to help someone overcome a fear. She just needs you to comfort her and help her get over this. Yes if you a female couple people are going to be more judgemental and curious but you're not more likely to get killed than the people next to you. Make her see but do it in a way that doesn't make you seem arrogant or like you don't care.

[iallen]

dont pressure her into anything just talk to her or something if she says no then you cant force her to do anything

[botwa]

well respect her opinion.
she does kiss you not when you're not in public, doesn't she?
then it's just her issues.

[FullyAlive]

Some people just don't like overt affection in public, there's a time and a place and that place can often be privacy. Maybe she's just not comfortable showing that sort of affection in front of people.

If she is just concerned about the reaction because she is in a same sex couple then you can't force her to get over this. Don't push her into anything she doesn't like she'll get comfortable in her own time.