Gosh i'm in deep sh*t

[LoginLeo]

Hey everybody.
Just wanted to ask for an advice.
You see, I have a girlfriend for 11 months now (By the way I'm 17 she's 18).
Now recently I realized that I'm not attracted to her anymore.

In the last month we had something like 4 fights or something, almost every thing she says makes me mad, the sex is horrible. (Ohh and she doesn't even realize that it's horrible, cuz i'm her first boyfriend).

Now the question is what to do.
I'm always mad, angry, nervous when she's near and I understand that she doesn't deserve it, cuz she really loves me.
So I really want to stop dating and stuff.
But on the other hand, she doesn't deserve this. Yeah, she made lots of mistakes, and when I tried to "correct" her, she always just got mad and made a drama, even though I didn't wish her anything bad and wasn't rude or anything.

I know her family, I know her parents, her friends. if I loose her, it will be sad to loose all of them.

So.. What should I do? Please give some advices...

Thanks ! :D

[FullyAlive]

Okay, I'm sorry but you can't stay in a relationship because you don't want to lose her friends etc, and because she doesn't deserve this. You know what she doesn't deserve? To be stuck in a relationship without love, she deserves the chance to go and find someone who will make her happy, love her and not argue.

The best thing you can do is break up with her, don't do it after an argument plan it. Sit down and talk her through, you clearly still care so you owe it to her to make it as easy as you can. And if you break up right you might not necessarily lose the other people.

And just a hint don't tell her the sex was bad.

[LoginLeo]

Okay, I'm sorry but you can't stay in a relationship because you don't want to lose her friends etc, and because she doesn't deserve this. You know what she doesn't deserve? To be stuck in a relationship without love, she deserves the chance to go and find someone who will make her happy, love her and not argue.

The best thing you can do is break up with her, don't do it after an argument plan it. Sit down and talk her through, you clearly still care so you owe it to her to make it as easy as you can. And if you break up right you might not necessarily lose the other people.

And just a hint don't tell her the sex was bad.

Ok thanks... That's what other people also told me to do.
Guess I"m gonna do it.

[FullyAlive]

Good luck :)