Marraige Why?

[Jhcx]

Think i goes under here :D

So im over on this other forum and the title of the thread is adult things that were daunting as a child

So i said Marriage. That it still puzzles me.
Honestly. getting your opinions on it. For me I dont think i could ever commit. not to sat the least i burst out laughing when i hear 17 years olds are married. Any relationship for me can only last a few month. I get bored halfway through it usually at the 6 month mark just loose interest the novelty of having someone to call your own wears off.

I look at my grandparents who sometimes have digs at eachother and im like how the hell can you look at the same person for all life. Fair enough love is a factor but im still not bought.

Whats your opinion? Are You like me or dying to settle and have lots of little yous? :D

[Weeping_Angel]

I'm not like you or your grandparents. I never found anyone that I really like, and I don't want to have tons of kids. Maybe if I find the right person I will marry them, but first of all, I would be marrying a woman, so we wouldn't even be able to have kids, and second of all I only want one or two kids. I want to have a lasting relationship, and I think that having a. Six month relationship is stupid, especially when you know it won't work out, unless you are only in it for the sex.

[Jhcx]

Fair enough. Kids 2 is enough.
My relationships just dont last:( . Na i have respect for a gf(girls). wont push unless they're ready.

If i was to go into the line of commitment it would be a prenup.

[FullyAlive]

Marriage, well I go through phases ultimately I think I'll never be completely happy unless i'm married. I want that commitment, that security. I know there's divorce now but to me marriage is still the sign that I'll be with that person forever. And if I were to have children I'd want them after marriage. Although saying that I don't think about this a lot, I'm not one of those people who plan their wedding, and can't wait to have kids. I have a life to live first.

You're 19, it's not unusual for you to not be thinking about commitment yet, and as for the boredom part I have a friend the exact same way. Buy yeah nineteen is so young, too young. You might change your mind when you find the right girl, you might change your mind as you grow up, you might never change your mind, it doesn't matter as long as you're happy.

[Desuetude]

Im not sure. In all honesty I don't think I'll ever get married, not after all the hate and arguments I've had with my parents are their girlfriend's/boyfriends. To me it all ends one way and that is down the drain, not that I'd find anyone anyway so thats another reason.
I don't think about the future very often though. About how many kids I want and what type of dress I'd like (hate dresses anyway :?) that's probably weird or something but the future just gets me down.

[Smeagol]

I don't think I shall get married. My plans for the future, crazy as they are, don't accommodate a second person. And unless I find somebody who wants to live on a farm and raise horses and doesn't care if we don't get a car and walk to the shops and are totally environmentally friendly... well, I still would probably get fed up with anybody pretty quickly.

[Solvez18]

Well marriage for me would be great i'd be glad to have a girl in my life. but thinking of marriage makes me a lil sad as my mum never married.

[XxAssasiNxX]

Marriage is stupid at my age. i wanna live my life and go crazy. dont wanna ruin my life amd have kids and get married lol. but i dunno maybe thats just me being a kid. maybe ill wanna get married after. but even then im still gona avoid marriage and im not gonna rush it..