No love

[Dangoblin]

So this year, i've fallen in love with this guy. The problem is, he doesnt know who i am. After pretty much this whole school year, i've learned tons about him. Some things i wanted to hear, others not so much. My friends (which are girls) talk about him A LOT. (I'm pretty sure every girl in the school is in love with him). So in the beginning, i figured, hey, there could be a chance hes gay or possibly bi. Well i've come to conclusion that hes staight. Every gay guys worst nightmare:(. Now im trying to get over him.. but its like impossible. I see him (hes a grade ahead of me) in the hallways quite a bit and hes in my gym. I tell myself whenever i know im about to see him "Dont look, Dont look"...... and when i do... BAM, depressed mode. Recently, my urge to cut has been getting stronger, however i have the mental strength to keep from doing it (that and i dont want to get caught). My question is, How do you get over someone. How can i make it that when i see him, i feel nothing. What are some ways.. i mean anything will help. (Please dont tell me "Just go up and talk to him"... thats the last thing i want to hear)

Thanks,
Dan

[Unknown-Data]

Find another love interest or pretend he doesn't exist, force yourself to make the feeling of indifference normal and no one will know what you think of him

[Dangoblin]

I know whatcha mean, but it seems like whenever i try something like that... it just makes it worse. I'll give ya an example: Last week, I hardly saw him. He was absent one day and the other days i just didnt see him in the halls. Then comes friday, i see saw him EVERYWHERE. I even turned around one time and saw him and practically jumped two feet in the air. It just seems that whenever i try to forget/avoid him, it makes me see him more.
(Btw, thanks for the response)

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

There's really not much to do other than try and get over him. He's straight so the only thing you can do is just move on. As for how to do so, well just have a chat with yourself: come to terms that he is straight and there is no future between the two of you in the romance department.

I know it probably won't help much, but there'll be someone else out there who'll be head over heels for you someday.