i need a good advice

[TheCrownish]

my mum caught my friend and me having sex three days ago... the problem is she didn't know that i'm be and i have a boyfriend.
now my parents didn''t say a word since this.
has anyone andvice?

[DerBear]

I suggest you talk to her.

It will be hard but imagine what it would do to your relationship with her if you don't.

I suggest you start the convo as I mean the shock has got to be something and she is shocked because

1. she never knew you were bi.
2. she caught her son in various sexual activities.

Talk to her it will be hard. Although it's better than the stiff silence and constant worry ad thinking.

[pankakeman]

You should talk to her, as she does know of these things anyway. Mothers usually understand things like this and shouldnt judge you on what your feelings and experiences are. It will definately be hard to talk to her but ad the person above me said, it will be better than the awkward silence that will follow. Just sit her down somewhere you can easily talk and tell her everything. (I suppose she doesn't need to know about the boyfriend, but your boyfriend may be unhappy about how your ashamed of him. Just try and think about all of the important decisions before you start chatting to her. Work out what to say and such)

Good luck!!

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Family and Friends

[Desuetude]

I think you should definitly bring it up with her again. Leaving it hanging in the air will do nothing but cause more tension between you. You should just tell her you're bi, If she loves you she will accept you no matter what your sexuality is.
If i'm honest I think she would be more freaked out that you're having sex than the fact that you're bi. If you leave it for too long then you're just going to get more worked up and nervous about telling her. It's like ripping off a plaster, don't think about it and do it fast and then it's all done.

[Weeping_Angel]

I think you should definitly bring it up with her again. Leaving it hanging in the air will do nothing but cause more tension between you. You should just tell her you're bi, If she loves you she will accept you no matter what your sexuality is.
If i'm honest I think she would be more freaked out that you're having sex than the fact that you're bi. If you leave it for too long then you're just going to get more worked up nad nervous about telling her. It's like ripping off a plaster, don't think about it and do it fast and then it's all done.

This. There will be much more tension and awkwardness if you don't address this.