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ashley997
April 20th, 2012, 01:50 PM
so im 14 and have been m-bating on and off for a couple years and usually when i finish i feel guilty and dirty for some reason and i try to not to do it again for a while. but usually i cant help it. also i dont usually get totally naked when i do it cuz i feel akward and dont like my body, but i still feel guilty afterwards alot. anyone else had this problem??

VeryWell
April 20th, 2012, 01:53 PM
There's nothing to feel guilty about, It's a wonderful, normal, even healthy thing to do. Enjoy it! ;)

Beskie
April 21st, 2012, 12:23 AM
I feel this way all the time after mostly from being told it was a sin when it was brought up, I think its normal

AbbaZabba
April 21st, 2012, 02:10 AM
I do it all the time. It is very normal, DON'T feel guilty, and enjoy it.

beccaweiser
April 21st, 2012, 02:22 AM
Hey, Ashley, I, too, wonder if your experience was anything like Beskie's...being brought up to think it was "wrong" or "dirty", say...that might explain your current feelings if you'd had it drummed into you continually when you were younger how you should basically avoid it at all costs...

ashley997
April 21st, 2012, 11:38 AM
yes my family is catholic and pretty strict. it sucks, i dont agree with any of that religion stuff but they think its so important.

VanillaSweety
April 22nd, 2012, 04:41 AM
I feel the exact same way. I feel super guilty and pray about it (My family is christian, and like Ashleys, strict) but I end up doing it again. Its not something that I'm proud of. I keep wondering; Is it a sin? I try not and do it, but it feels so good *blush*

whatevva
April 22nd, 2012, 09:49 AM
Kinda sux that religion would make you feel guilty about something that's so normal and good.

VeryWell
April 23rd, 2012, 04:30 PM
I feel the exact same way. I feel super guilty and pray about it (My family is christian, and like Ashleys, strict) but I end up doing it again. Its not something that I'm proud of. I keep wondering; Is it a sin? I try not and do it, but it feels so good *blush*

It's not a sin at all. You're not hurting anyone, you feel good afterwards, and the "pressure" goes away for a while. Just make sure you won't be walked in on while doing it.

Noxail
April 23rd, 2012, 06:38 PM
It's a totally natural thing. Don't feel guilty. The preps you see walking down the hall? They've stuck their hands down their pants. The quiet kiss-up? She's had her hands down her pants too. No matter who you are, or what gender you are, you've tried it at some point, and there's nothing to be ashamed of. :yes: Stay Confident ~Holli

kentucky girl
April 25th, 2012, 11:24 AM
it is a natural thing to do so don't feel guilty about it. almost everyone has done it at least once

MemoriesLost
April 27th, 2012, 03:15 PM
I've only done it a few times, but I do feel really guilty and weird :c
I'm considered the innocent one in school, so it's kinda weird. I have this strange thing where I always feel like someone I know is watching me, so I get so shamed.

OzGirlRachael
April 29th, 2012, 02:38 AM
It's totally normal and nothing to feel guilty about.

Wolverine.
April 29th, 2012, 03:37 AM
There is no reason why you should feel guilty. It is perfectly perfectly normal ;)

Tina36DD
April 30th, 2012, 01:57 AM
You shouldn't feel guilty.....I don't..I bet the ones who say its a sin, do it too. My mom found my alum flashlight i use as a toy. She ws picking up landry and found it in my bed an could tell it had been "back there" LOL;) She said not to worry, its normal to do it and be curyous.

If it feels good to you, who is someone to tell you its bad??

Go for it and most imp. have fun and find the way it feels the best for you. I used to just rub, now i HAVE to put something inside! Just me!

sunsetblur
June 14th, 2012, 05:56 AM
nothing to feel bad about ;)

missmk
June 14th, 2012, 01:17 PM
don't feel guilty EVERYONE does it. I do it everyday atleast twice, sometimes more. its totally normal. Don't get self contious over it :)