Touching my bestie...

[pankakeman]

Well, I was just wondering.

2 things really.

Me and my best friend are incredibly close. Were usually cuddling, hugging, touching, etc. He was the one to start all this when out of the blue he kissed me. I was so confused that day because I actually liked it. I had no idea what to think anymore. That was the day that I became curious. I was having dreams about him and we started getting much closer.

So my first question is, do you think he's curious too?


Editing these answers in as some people may have missed them.

In reply to swagging*God

To be perfectly honest with you, after the things that have happened between us in the past I've developed some sort of sexual attraction towards him. I don't blame him or anything, but yea, it was his fault XD I do love him, he's a great friend, and I don't think anything will tear us apart. Having said that I am still worried about asking him such a large proportioned question as to see it and what not. It's just difficult >_<


Also, I'm on another sleepover tonight and I'm sorta making myself not do it, but iunno what will come of this...



*that night he was awake. I am so sure. I did what I did before again and he got hard, I looked over at his face to see him smiling. I did this for several more minutes and then just wanked until I cummed and then slept. We didn't speak of it at all, but were closer now and the following day we had fun just being us. Lol. <3 Master Reichy.


My second question is to see of this is wrong.

The other night he slept over at my house. He was sleeping on the floor and always fell asleep before me. I played xbox for a while and when I turned it off and started to think (I have insomnia, really hard to get to sleep) about how big be is? So I took his covers off and slowly slipped 2 fingers into his pants. I did this multiple times as he kept moving until finally I pulled his pj's and undies back and saw it. I was amazed when I saw it. He's half the size of me! I always usually had concern of down there, but not I'm not at all. He was 3.75" roughly hard.

I'm just wondering if this was wrong? It was a fun experience for me and I really wanted to do it again, just want to get you'se guy's opinion.

Thanks :)

[Short Circuit]

You were wrong putting your fingers down his pants, and also for sneaking a peek! You should have asked him while he was awake, as you have stated that you kiss and cuddle already. It is an invasion of privacy what you did, and you could end up being in alot of trouble if he finds out. BTW, you said he was hard, the chances are he was NOT asleep then

[pankakeman]

You think he wasn't asleep??? :eek:

[pankakeman]

That does make sense actually as he was only in deep sleep, not REM. REM is when your in your state of dreaming, and he wasn't doing that, (if you didn't know REM means Rapid Eye Movement.)

To be honest he could of been light sleep :eek:
Well...if he was awake then perhaps he enjoyed it? Hmm...

[Davidd1995]

hahah ^^^

[pankakeman]

lol, dun laugh...and this could mean some opportunities... :P

[OnlyOneChance]

i feel as if a lot of people actually do this at sleep overs. It could be normal but what if the person was like RAPE!
Would that be even considered rape?

[boosterboy1]

You were wrong putting your hands in his pants, you should have asked him when he was awake. He might have said yes

[Short Circuit]

i feel as if a lot of people actually do this at sleep overs. It could be normal but what if the person was like RAPE!
Would that be even considered rape?

I dont know the legal age in your country, it is 16 in the UK, if the person is UNDER that age, it could be classed as child molestation

[NephilimAzrael]

Just talk to him about it all, but in case he was asleep, don't bring up that last bit, but if he was awake and brings it up, that can be part of the convo to.

[IAMWILL]

Uh yea, he was definitely awake and accepted it, in other words hes certainly curious. Just ask him next time and I almost gurantee he'll say yes.

[pankakeman]

Thanks for the support guys. We are both thirteen.

I'm not entirely sure because he's quite the unusual individual when it comes to sexuality.
Like, sometimes we'll do stuff that's so close we almost have our hands down eachothers pants, and then other times he tells me off for putting my head on him after lik 10 mins.

I think he may be curious, I'm really not sure though. I have never kissed him, he's always kissed me, at the weirdest places too.

If I do do that again, I'll check his heartbeat. One time when he slept over he sleepwalked into my bed, right next to me for like 40 mins, and my heart was beating incredibly fast. So perhaps his does when I do it too.

[Buckeyefan11]

i agree with alot of these people. if he is comfortable enough to cuddl with you, you should be comfortable enough to ask him about it and talk with him.

[Cicero]

i feel as if a lot of people actually do this at sleep overs. It could be normal but what if the person was like RAPE!
Would that be even considered rape?

That could actually be considered rape, but it could loosely be considered rape.

I think that was innapropriate for you to do that. Instead, you should've asked him. I'm sure he wouldn't mind if you do all the other stuff you described. But theres a big chance he woke up when you did that, and he liked it. But if he was 3.75 in. That's a good size, cause you didn't mention he was hard. If he was that big hard, then that's a bit small.

[KarkatLuv]

I think doing what you did was wrong, but you siad he kisses and cuddles you, if you do ask him to do that kind of stuff and he thinks that thats weird that would be extremely strange in my mind, considering kisses and cuddles are more meaningful than experimentation.

[kimnikko]

That's just not right, unless if it's okay with him of course.

[pankakeman]

He's around 4.25inches just from looking. Iunno if he was awake when I did do that. He may of liked it. I probably won't do it again without his consent. And it isn't classified as rape, because it definately seemed like he was enjoying it.


Again, thanks for the support guys. And criticism, is all welcome :3

[Short Circuit]

And it isn't classified as rape, because it definately seemed like he was enjoying it.




That logic would definately stand up in court:yawn:

[AlexTronX]

you guys are both guys
he kissed you you touched and looked at hes wenner
what are you guys gay:eek

[Jake777dylan]

Bro in not here to judge you but listen you need to talk to him if he made the first move then I'm sure that he would want to have fun ;) just be sure he is aware what is going on

[Green Arrow]

If you are comfortable with the kissing and cuddling then keep on doing it, it's a lot of fun and don't let anything stop you doing it. If you enjoy do it then there is nothing wrong with it. As with the other thing I think that it might be a bit wrong HOWEVER if you say he was hard that the likely hood of him being asleep would be very low. I think that he was pretending to be asleep and enjoyed the thing that you were doing, however I might be wrong as I am just going on what you have told us. :P

[Firearm]

He is diffenitly curious if he kissed u... If ur comfortable go for it! And yea it was wronge for u do look and he might be a grower not a shower!

[itsjustme9000]

well if your close then you should have asked to see his dick i'm sure he would have showed you sooner or later

[xChrisVx]

I think that was a bit out of order. It is clear you were close friends so you could have asked him while he was awake. It could be considered sexual assault if he wasn't happy with it. I know this sounds a bit harsh but it is the truth. You should ask him next time

[AlexTronX]

just ask him if you wamt to do it again heel say yes

[AlexTronX]

just ask him then you both con see and touch each others

[The_Joker]

Im not here to judge, but i think if you wanted a peek, why not ask? im sure he wouldnt have said no mate :)

[pankakeman]

To all the people stating this is rape.

I know my bestie, and if he did find out about this I'm sure he would take it quite as bad as that. Were both great friends and enjoy each others company. As for asking him to experiment, I don't thi k he likes to classify himself as someone who is bicurious, even though I am quite convinced that he is. I think he's self conscious of what some people think of him in specific ways.

(also, one comment stated he was a grower, and not a shower, but I assure you over the years that I have known him he's a pretty big shower xD anyway, I think I'm seeing him next weekend, I'll repost and tell you what goes on.

[Swagging god]

Well, I was just wondering.

2 things really.
I don't know if he's curious that's something your going to have to carefully observe and determine for yourself.!
Me and my best friend are incredibly close. Were usually cuddling, hugging, touching, etc. He was the one to start all this when out of the blue he kissed me. I was so confused that day because I actually liked it. I had no idea what to think anymore. That was the day that I became curious. I was having dreams about him and we started getting much closer. ~ Swagging god

So my first question is, do you think he's curious too?


My second question is to see of this is wrong.

The other night he slept over at my house. He was sleeping on the floor and always fell asleep before me. I played xbox for a while and when I turned it off and started to think (I have insomnia, really hard to get to sleep) about how big be is? So I took his covers off and slowly slipped 2 fingers into his pants. I did this multiple times as he kept moving until finally I pulled his pj's and undies back and saw it. I was amazed when I saw it. He's half the size of me! I always usually had concern of down there, but not I'm not at all. He was 3.75" roughly hard.

I'm just wondering if this was wrong? It was a fun experience for me and I really wanted to do it again, just want to get you'se guy's opinion.

Thanks :)
Well man to answer your question I'm gonna have to say what you did was "normal for a tennage boy there is nothing wrong with being curious about how big a friend is and quenching that thirst of curiosity. so don't feel bad about what you did. On the other hand if your really close to the guy you probably cold've asked him to let u see it. idk you know how big it is now, but I would advice you not to tell him about how u saw it that could ruin your friendship. Anyway ask him again and see if he lets you you might find he's grown a bit since then.~ Swagging god

[SuckmyToe]

It depends. What the age limit is in your country. But if he was hard he is either dreaming about well you know what i mean. Or he was awake and seen you feeling him up. So it is more than likely he was awake.

[bborrego]

I would kill to have that happen to me.
And that last part sounded very fun!

[tositinsolemnsilence]

I've been in the same shoes... He was a good friend, and he had fallen asleep. We're both straight and were sleeping in the same bed. I put my hand under the covers and moved my hand towards him. (we both wear and sleep in compression shorts) I felt his abdomen and went down. I put my hand on his dick, and since it was early in the morning, (2:30 AM) he was hard. I felt it through the compression shorts to see how big it was and when i did, his dick like pulsed and got REALLY hard (didnt cum or anything) he rolled over on my hand. I tried to pull back but I couldn't. I thought he was asleep until he moved his hand over to my dick and grabbed it. MSG me if you want to talk...

[MJohn]

I think that's hot. Haha I remember when I had a best friend that closed but moved:(

[double r]

Not cool. I think that it is not rigth to do that without hi permission

[maxii]

I did that one time wen I was like 11. I was a curious kid. I jerked of with my friend. but wanted to touch it. it only happend one time. and yea he was hard. he was asleep. its natural. our body cause us to get hard even wen we are asleep. we get boners thru out the night as we sleep. our body makes sure every thing is working properly. I think we get boners every 40 mins or so wen we sleep. and some times we wake up with boners. but we think its natural because we have to pee. but if u notice. some times we wake up to pee and we are not hard. its our bodies natural cycle.

[leafgreenangel]

I think he was awake, and it was wrong to feel him without consent

[Swagging god]

On one hand what you did was quite normal, it isn't bad/ a sin to be curious that's to be expected at our age ,and he never knew about . On the other hand you should of waited till he woke up then asked him casually hey man wanna watch some porn or something then u could see it that way in the future just a thought ~ Swagging god

[badboy96]

Well, I was just wondering.

2 things really.

Me and my best friend are incredibly close. Were usually cuddling, hugging, touching, etc. He was the one to start all this when out of the blue he kissed me. I was so confused that day because I actually liked it. I had no idea what to think anymore. That was the day that I became curious. I was having dreams about him and we started getting much closer.

So my first question is, do you think he's curious too?


My second question is to see of this is wrong.

The other night he slept over at my house. He was sleeping on the floor and always fell asleep before me. I played xbox for a while and when I turned it off and started to think (I have insomnia, really hard to get to sleep) about how big be is? So I took his covers off and slowly slipped 2 fingers into his pants. I did this multiple times as he kept moving until finally I pulled his pj's and undies back and saw it. I was amazed when I saw it. He's half the size of me! I always usually had concern of down there, but not I'm not at all. He was 3.75" roughly hard.

I'm just wondering if this was wrong? It was a fun experience for me and I really wanted to do it again, just want to get you'se guy's opinion.

Thanks :)

good on u mate you only live oncs

[pankakeman]

Swagging_God

To be perfectly honest with you, after the things that have happened between us in the past I've developed some sort of sexual attraction towards him. I don't blame him or anything, but yea, it was his fault XD I do love him, he's a great friend, and I don't think anything will tear us apart. Having said that I am still worried about asking him such a large proportioned question as to see it and what not. It's just difficult >_<


Also, I'm on another sleepover tonight and I'm sorta makingmyself not do it, but iunno what will come of this...

[pankakeman]

^^ that night he was awake. I am so sure. I did what I did before again and hr got hard, I looked over at his face to see him smiling. I did this for several more minutes and then just wanked until I cummed and then slept. We didn't speak of it at all, but were closer now and the following day he did crack a joke hinting that he couldn't get to sleep well last night. Lol. <3 Master Reichy.

[YOUNGFLYGUY]

You were wrong putting your fingers down his pants, and also for sneaking a peek! You should have asked him while he was awake, as you have stated that you kiss and cuddle already. It is an invasion of privacy what you did, and you could end up being in alot of trouble if he finds out. BTW, you said he was hard, the chances are he was NOT asleep then

I agree..

[TheDxevilboy]

It was wrong if you think it was wrong. I personally think it is a violation of privacy but if you guys are that close in the first place it should be fine. Its not like you were trying to rape the bloke.

[Inventor2]

If he was awake and smiling to you touching him, he liked it and if u ask him he probably would show u his dick and let you ... Well you know what i mean lol

[scer123]

I wouldnt condone looking at his dick when he is sleeping, but he would have proabbly let you see it if you asked. He kissed you, he's probably curious too.

[Sean4U]

Agree that you shouldn't have done that...but ask...most guys will compare str8 or not....then something else could happen which is what I think that you want

[Idk what to put]

Not only is he curious but I believe he is ready for way more than cuddling

[Vteenboy 1]

Can you hook me up with him lolXD