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NeuShadow
April 20th, 2012, 12:41 AM
Pt. 1.-)Heres the story... i went out wit a chik that i grew up with as a kid. just last July i decided to ask her out n found out that she had liked me for a while. she didnt have a fone at the time so i txted her wen she was wit her cousin n she told me to go to her house the next nite. thing is she didnt tell me how to get her out or if i should have just waited. the following nite i went to her house n threw little pebbles to her window thinkin that it was a classic n it might catch her attention. she never came out, and the next day she told me another cousin of hers was wit her n that the cousin was getting scared so instead they went to sleep. As skool started in august, we were waitin for her bus after skool wen another friend shows up n they start walkin away. I was scolded by her best friend cuz i didnt follow her this one time. anyway they start walkin away n my gf had told me to stay there cuz she was goin to get a pop. later on i talk to that same friend n asked her all this stuff n this is wat i was told. the day we were supposed sneak out at nite, i creeped her out and scared her. The day of the pop was only to get away from me cuz she was actually getting a ride from her mom. so we broke up and she blocked me on facebook the next day cuz i told her to tell her family that we had broken up. some of her family didnt kno till this past january and we broke up in september. i have this feelin that i still like and love her n were barely startin to talk to each other little by little.

pt 2.-) recently me and my ex's best friend have had 2 classes in common. we talk to each other a lot in one class cuz its pottery and the other wen ever we have the chance. accordin to a lot of people, it looks like were goin out. i had liked her before i went out wit my ex and stopped cuz i was with my ex. but ever since people started sayin this i started liking her again. almost the whole skool thought we were goin out. MY bestfriend says "f*** it u got nothin to lose" and so do other people. HER closest friends are like "careful we just have a feelin she might use u... shes the type to b wit one but still go rub off wit another" and one of her guy friends whos protective over her told me that i should go out wit her. But heres the thing... Its NOT in our culture to go out wit gfs/bfs best friends, ur bestfriend goes out wit ur LAST ex is wrong. for u to go out wit ur ex's best friend is ALSO WRONG and i think that my ex in PT. 1 is sort of talkin to me is prob cuz she heard that Me and her best friend r goin out.

So wat should i do try to get back with Girl in Part 1 or try to get wit girl in Part 2?

scott757
April 20th, 2012, 09:01 PM
Thats a really akward one... tbh I think the fact you guys have been apart for a number of months now would suggest your better to move on. REGARDLESS if she is her best friend or not... after the way she treated you would you want to go through that again or try something completely different...? Thats what you need to ask yourself.

Smeagol
April 21st, 2012, 05:25 AM
You probably ought to move on. It's an unfortunate situation, but she didn't treat you terribly well the first time, why would the second time be any different?

Mortal Coil
April 21st, 2012, 06:32 AM
You probably ought to move on. It's an unfortunate situation, but she didn't treat you terribly well the first time, why would the second time be any different?

Exactly. Go with the one you want, don't let culture dictate you like that.

NeuShadow
April 21st, 2012, 10:40 AM
Exactly. Go with the one you want, don't let culture dictate you like that.

well as it turns out yesterday i kinda tried to make a move on the 2nd girl and she said she really wouldnt go out wit me... it started out by listing all the people who thought we were goin out there were bout 15 of them then i told her how her guy friend said that it made sense cuz we both screwed around a lot n that was wen she said "no offence, but i wouldnt..." wat could she have meant by that?