I dont deserve love.

[Aquila]

Im so sad and pathetic, everyday of my life. Ive never had a girlfriend or anything. Ive never had anyone who i can love and who loves me back, I feel so worthless. No one wants me, I just go unnoticed, even the friends i have are just that- friends. Theyre just people i hang out with, they dont love me. Even if i find someone, i know theyll just leave me, because thats what everyone i care about does. I would give her everything, my complete love and affection, but it wouldnt matter, theyd find some reason to leave me. Id be too clingy or too affectionate. Nothing i do works. And dont say, just be confident, confidence works. I know confidence works, but i dont have any, and i dont know what to do anymore. I just want to love someone.

[Stryker125]

Everyone deserves love.

[kenoloor]

You don't need someone else in order to feel good about yourself. That is a process that happens internally, intiated and maintainted by yourself. Sure, other people may affect how you feel, but at the end of the day, it's something that is entirely up to you.

Having a girlfriend isn't the end all and be all of living; there is so much more to discover and learn and explore in life than dating. In fact, when compared to all of the treasures that life has to offer, dating can seem very mundane oftentimes. I encourage you to seek out the treasures in life rather than waiting for them to come to you. Good luck!

[Weeping_Angel]

You don't need someone else in order to feel good about yourself. That is a process that happens internally, intiated and maintainted by yourself. Sure, other people may affect how you feel, but at the end of the day, it's something that is entirely up to you.

Having a girlfriend isn't the end all and be all of living; there is so much more to discover and learn and explore in life than dating. In fact, when compared to all of the treasures that life has to offer, dating can seem very mundane oftentiimes. I encourage you to seek out the treasures in life rather than waiting for them to come to you. Good luck!

This is exactly what I have recently discovered, and exactly what I would have posted, had you not posted it first. It isn't about what other people think of you, because they aren't the ones deciding your life, unless you let them. Make sure that you do what YOU, want and then you will feel good about yourself.

[Skyhawk]

Everyone's a bitch in their teen years, you'll find love soon. ;)

Also, I love your username. (Aquila... :D)

[Aquila]

Having a girlfriend isn't the end all and be all of living; there is so much more to discover and learn and explore in life than dating. In fact, when compared to all of the treasures that life has to offer, dating can seem very mundane oftentimes. I encourage you to seek out the treasures in life rather than waiting for them to come to you. Good luck!

I kinda get that, and I do want to get the most out of life, I just want to do it with somebody. I dont want a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend, I want to have the love of my life, whose my best friend, and we go through life experiencing everything together. But it just feels that that person doesnt exist for me.

[kenoloor]

I kinda get that, and I do want to get the most out of life, I just want to do it with somebody. I dont want a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend, I want to have the love of my life, whose my best friend, and we go through life experiencing everything together. But it just feels that that person doesnt exist for me.

It is my opinion that the concept of "soul mates" is an unrealistic one. The way I see it, if you keep looking for somebody who's perfect for you, you're setting yourself up for likely disappointment; nobody is perfect. However, with that in mind, it opens up a whole new world of possibilities.

That's a rather indirect way of saying don't give up hope. But keep in mind that the things you experience with yourself can be just as meaningful as the things you experience with a significant other. And I certainly don't think that you "don't deserve love." You'll find it eventually. I hate to say it (because I always hated when it was said to me), but try and be patient. :heart:

[Amaryllis]

People are there but they might as well not be. Since they're not -really- there and neither are you. Sometimes life feels a little like trying to fill a glass with a crack in it. Pretty close to impossible. Lucky for you and I, it isn't really like that.

Loneliness can be a bitter thing to go through. Not having a girlfriend hurts. Having a girlfriend hurts. We keep chasing the edge of the horizon and when we get there, we run after the next horizon and it goes on and on and on and on. Stop.

Love isn't all it's cracked up to be. Especially not the romantic and sexual type of love. No one in this world is a definite, clear path. No one's a porcelain doll. We're all multi-faceted artichokes (lol what) and very, very rarely does anyone get exactly what they look for. You need to peel through the horrible hard layers of the artichoke to get into the heart. That's life.

I thought I'd be alone forever. I went through years of being so absolutely alone, I started isolating myself. Yeah, bizarre and stupid. Want a boyfriend, stay in my room. Love interests don't grow in bedrooms. We coop ourselves up and weep in self-pity, asking why oh why are the starts not shining. When really, starts don't shine through brick ceilings.

It isn't just keeping yourself cooped up, it's despising yourself for what you're not. As in, telling yourself you're worthless when you're not. The only thing worthless about anyone is thinking they're worthless. Live a little, hun. One day you'll realise romantic love isn't the only thing in the world to live for.

Rock climbing is scary and difficult. And it hurts like a bitch when you slam your sexy hip against the goddamned cement but it's thrilling and the view from above is amazing.

You need to experience pain to experience happiness.

[TeddyBearRock]

You will find some one, Dont worry you cant find someone noe coz seriouly your young and even if your were dating now there is a low chance you will actully marry them,