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ryansmith13
April 19th, 2012, 07:50 PM
I've been really attracted to guys lately, but I swear I dont think Im gay. I am emotionally attracted to girls but i've been looking at other guys lately. Has anyone been through the gay phase? Is it a phase?

senior.2013
April 19th, 2012, 07:56 PM
Its normal. It usually lasts from age 13-15 all the way to 16-18 on some. It will most likely wear off. Being a homosexual means that you have an emotional as well as physical attraction.

Rascaldog24
April 19th, 2012, 08:21 PM
Sounds like raging hormones but I went through this like 5 mouths ago but I KNOW I'm strait thing happen����

alex6455
April 19th, 2012, 08:54 PM
Same!

boonsim
April 19th, 2012, 09:55 PM
Ugh. Homosexuality, at least if you really are gay, is not a phase. That's something the denial-stricken parents of their gay children tell them in hopes they become "normal".

And this belongs in teen sexuality. I don't know how to report that.

jvballer
April 20th, 2012, 04:02 PM
i was the same

OnlyOneChance
April 20th, 2012, 10:56 PM
i think everyone has the same feeling, even if they do not want to admit it.

Diverperry
April 21st, 2012, 12:38 AM
Ya I think I just got out of it. Like there was a point where I thought I was bi and a week later I just lost all those feelings and don't even look at gay porn anymore

SuckmyToe
April 28th, 2012, 04:18 PM
It happening to me... Your Bi if your are attracted to boys and girls. It's just your hormones raging.

Drew5
April 28th, 2012, 05:28 PM
I don't do phases

average teen
April 28th, 2012, 06:58 PM
okay, so im reallly attracted to girls. but i just want to try something with a boy. i sometimes watch gay porn but mostly is straight porn. am i gay? will this wear off?

samuel227
April 29th, 2012, 02:35 AM
I am going through this now...and its just so difficult :(

NickKnutson
April 29th, 2012, 06:58 PM
I am going through this now...and its just so difficult :(
Same here...

OregonStateDude
April 29th, 2012, 07:21 PM
That's something the denial-stricken parents of their gay children tell them in hopes they become "normal".

I would hope my mom is more enlightened than that when I finally tell her.

Anyways, it's only a phase if you want to do some low level stuff. If your desires include actual sex, then it's probably not a phase.

Magenta
April 29th, 2012, 07:22 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

itsjustme9000
April 29th, 2012, 07:25 PM
well since your going through puberty then its probably raging hormones

branman2000
April 30th, 2012, 12:29 AM
Ya, im 16 almost 17 and i feel the same way. I watch gay porn sometimes and wonder if im gay, but then i always think about how i could NEVER be in a relationship with a guy. Its weird but i think a lot of people go through it.

whiteyrhys
July 1st, 2012, 02:53 PM
It's entirely normal, I wouldn't lose too much sleep over it.
If you find yourself wanting to 'experiment' with guys too that's absolutely okay it allows you to define yourself as a person and find out precisely what you do and don't like.

Sean4U
July 1st, 2012, 02:57 PM
Since I know I'm gay I don't know about if that is a phase or not, but I do know that a couple of my straight friends have had some of those feelings, even acted on them a couple of times just to find out about it. I don't think that makes them gay, or bi. Simply experimenting, which is cool I think. Being gay is more than just a physical thing, as said before it is also emotional as well.



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EmptyBottle
July 1st, 2012, 10:44 PM
Everyone has that phase.

minecraftmstr
July 2nd, 2012, 10:05 AM
Im like that too emotional with girls but hell i gave a blowjob a week ago

Jacketh
July 2nd, 2012, 10:14 AM
Hormones can have a massive effect. It does happen alot between the ages of 12 and 16. Myself, I know I'm gay, as I've never been attracted to a girl. Its important to not get confused with the ''Always been Gay/Lesbian, this isn't hormones'' people and ''I don't know, why am I attracted to this guy.. I'm pretty sure I'm straight. people.

Most people do realise their sexual preference during puberty. Some don't even start feeling attracted until 18/19. If this phase, in say 7 months time is still there and grows stronger, you may want to start thinking if you're Bisexual. Obviously, the chances are that won't happen. As I said previously, it happens a hell of a lot and its nothing to worry about.

If this phase doesn't go away or even grows stronger, don't fight against it. Accept it as there is nothing wrong with being Bisexual or Gay. As long as you Accept it and you're comfortable, you'll be fine. It doesn't mean you have to come out, far from it. Just accept it. :)

Lovemeorleaveme
July 2nd, 2012, 07:04 PM
Your still attracted to girls so your not gay simple as that. it sounds like your Bi-curious meaning you have an emotional and sexual attraction to girls and only a sexual attraction to boys, that or your just really horny. Its probably just a phase.

gig-guy
July 5th, 2012, 08:51 AM
Its a phase