Complicated Struggle

[ekul6159]

Okay, so here is the deal. A couple months ago, I was pretty desperate, and I rushed into a relationship with a girl I barely knew, after one date. That same night, I met her best friend. Her best friend was pretty desperate as well, so I hooked her up with one of my bros, and they soon dated after. So the first month was a pretty normal first month, just kissing, movies, and talking. But then my girlfriend went to Europe for a week, and during that time, her best friend and I got very close, and we realized that we are very similar in almost everything to do, our nicknames are "Twin" for each other.

Now my twin and her boyfriend have had some issues. He is very depressed, and she is not in love with him, because she is emotionally connected to another girl (I know, right?). A few days ago, Twin talked to me, and since we pretty much know how we are both thinking, she approached me about us, maybe falling for each other, and she is right. My girlfriend is not very deep, and has recently told Twin that she is not very attracted to me, whereas Twin is. the problem is how do I break up with a girl that will hate me for wanting her best friend, and how will Twin break up with a suicidal and depressive boyfriend, just so we can date? This whole situation is messed. Any advice would help, or if you need clarification, please ask. :(

[boonsim]

Whoa, that's quite a contradictory situation.

Just break up with her. If she hates you, so what? You don't have to talk to her.
For Twin, she should just follow her heart.
Twins bf needs help immediately if he shows signs of depression/suicide.
And if you like Twin and she likes you, go for it!

[kenoloor]

I agree with Bobby^. If neither of you feel that your current relationship is not the best it could be, then it's a waste of time and energy. Life is too short to stay in relationships where you're not happy.

[RCT109]

Ok here is my advice.
1) tell your girlfriend how you feel
2) Have 'twin' tell her bf
3) you get with 'twin'

I know it sounds to the point, but thats what it needs to be.

Hope it helped
Shawn

[Rage of the Menace]

'Twin' seems like a much nicer person to be honest. But you don't want to ruin her relationship with her best friend so try make the breakup as subtle as possible, maybe make your girlfriend dislike you and make her dump you?

I'm not sure, but what i am sure about, 'twin' is the one for you :)

[ekul6159]

'Twin' seems like a much nicer person to be honest. But you don't want to ruin her relationship with her best friend so try make the breakup as subtle as possible, maybe make your girlfriend dislike you and make her dump you?

I'm not sure, but what i am sure about, 'twin' is the one for you :)

Thank-you so much! I really think so too! I just really don't want to see their friendship ruined because of it. I want to protect Twin, she means so much to me! Everyone has really been so helpful! Thanks!

[Rage of the Menace]

Thank-you so much! I really think so too! I just really don't want to see their friendship ruined because of it. I want to protect Twin, she means so much to me! Everyone has really been so helpful! Thanks!

Hey man, that's what we're here for! Goodluck :)

[RCT109]

Thank-you so much! I really think so too! I just really don't want to see their friendship ruined because of it. I want to protect Twin, she means so much to me! Everyone has really been so helpful! Thanks!

let us know how it turns out