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abdheuuuchjc
April 17th, 2012, 09:25 PM
Why do chicks dig jerks?
FullyAlive
April 18th, 2012, 02:18 PM
Family and Friends :arrow2: Relationships & Dating
Desuetude
April 18th, 2012, 02:27 PM
Link to the same kind of thread (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=133884)

I'm not to sure. I can understand why boys say girls are from another planet. I don't even understand us half the time.
Rage of the Menace
April 19th, 2012, 07:49 AM
Story of my life, lawl.
Angel Androgynous
April 19th, 2012, 08:21 AM
Because she's not gonna fall in love with your personality at first sight, and because she may just be barely exploring relationships as a young teenager, and just because you smother her with stupid mushy shit doesn't mean she is obligated to go out with you? (Also, who knows, maybe she thinks you're a jerk) :P Besides, if she falls in love with stupid guys, and you think it's stupid, then stop chasing her and move on? Honestly, if you are gonna complain about the dumb bitches YOU chase then you might as well follow your own advice and not be the cause of your own complaint...
ashdyn
April 19th, 2012, 11:41 AM
I don't think that girls actually go for the jerks out there. lol I mean who seriously wants to date a giant douche?

I feel like it seems girls tend to date jerks because usually jerks come off as more confident. I notice this a lot...usually the better/nicer guy is usually not as outgoing or assertive whereas the douche will be extremely confident (because he's a douche and only cares about himself) and basically take control of the situation. Girls like confident and assertive guys. Nice guys usually don't try to take command when talking to a girl because you respect her and value her opinion. Jerks don't they're all rah rah, control the situation, make everyone think he's a god then bam! he gets the girl.

It sucks and almost seems unimaginable but put yourself in her shoes. Honestly would you rather have the "nice" girl who never looked you in the eye and acted like she wasn't very confident in herself. Or would you rather have the bitchy girl that seems to get everyone to like her and seems like a fun time <- ok bad example lol but you know what I'm getting at