Is my Friend Gay?

[elemental06]

So i slept over at his house the other night. I woke up to pee, and when i went in the bathroom i didn't mind closing the door since he was the only person in the room. I peed and when i came out he quickly pulled his hand out of his pants and i saw an obvious erection. Then he asked if he wanted to compare and he really wanted to see mine. Is he really curious or something?

[jamesscott]

sounds like a normal guy to me, we all get curious and like to see what each other has. its normal

[JackShephard]

Don't worry about it. That's a normal thing that will probably come up with more people. And so what if he's gay, I would hope that you would support him all the same.

[Gravity_boy]

It's nothing wrong for me. I think he's just curious.

[Bubbawhack]

Even if he is or isn't homosexual its perfectly normal to be interested in size, what is average, and what other people look like down there

[Giles]

Based solely on what you told us it seems fairly obvious that he's curious. If you're wanting to know if that is a normal thing to do and way to act, then it is - nothing to be worried about it. Do it if you want to, but bear in mind it may negatively effect your relationship in the future.

[senior.2013]

As said, its clear hes curious. Being labeled as gay means that you have physical and emotional attraction. If you arent comfortable with anything he wants to do, dont do it. But if you do just remember any friendship can be destroyed.

[boosterboy1]

He's probably just curious

[billybigfish]

dude, dont worry about it, i compared with my mate, it was alright, if you eel nervous just say no, but he proberbly is just curious, i am to, its fine

[Skyhawk]

He's most likely curious, whether he's gay or not shouldn't be assumed just because of this.

[Cicero]

It was definitely an odd way to bring up comparing. But I believe it's normal, he's just curious.

[gmansa]

just keep an steady eye on him

[thegermanjonas]

yeah its normal, just enjoy the fun :)

[TheCrabtrac]

He is Curious, Almost Everybody our age with the chance to ask that question will ask out of curiosity. it doesn't make him gay.

[Alex Zarcovsky]

He's probably just curious. Masturbating/comparing with friends is fun!

[jjsmitty]

He's probably just curious about size, shape etc whether he's "normal." Do what feels right for you, if you dont want to compare then dont, if you do then fine but be careful where it leads.

[riotroger]

Completely normal. Probably not saying anything that everyone else hasn't already said, but every guy is curious like that when growing and their hormones are developing. Only thing that matters of course is if that bothers you or not.

Honestly I wouldn't think too much of it. Some guys think it strengthen's their bond/friendship to cross that boundary and feel comfortable doing something that most of us consider to be a private thing. It can be totally innocent, whether its comparing or doing something more, and you both just consider it something you do with your best friend.

If he is gay, there's still nothing to be worried about. If you think he is, its still up to you (obv) if you want to go there and compare with him or not. There are plenty of straight guys out there with gay best friends, and they still compare/jo together, etc.

Long story short, just keep calm and don't panic :D

[karejeet]

just curious, it prob just wanted to have some fun, comparing and jerking off with friends isss sooooo fun, trustt

[irishguy123]

did you compare?

[liljack13]

he could be but he could just be curious, asking him is probably the best way to find out

[Davidd1995]

He's probably just curious. Masturbating/comparing with friends is fun!

Exactly !! its normal

[Fourth Dimension]

just normal guys stuff

[AHSboy]

Only one way to find out...

[Waldorf]

Sounds like a normal thing. I wouldn't be worried.

[legitt]

I think he was just curious

[joshduder]

Comparing doesn't make u gay as the misconception is. It is normal provided it doesn't go further

[Zydeco]

I think he's just curious. Happens to most boys at one point or another.

[YOUNGFLYGUY]

Don't worry about it. That's a normal thing that will probably come up with more people. And so what if he's gay, I would hope that you would support him all the same.

I agree

[madea rocks]

Most likely is hes curious