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XxAssasiNxX
April 17th, 2012, 07:34 AM
So yeah my mum thinks im to young for everything.she controls what i belive in mostly. hoe i do everthing basicly. shes a bitch. i never get to speak. but today i want some advice of my religion. so today my mum picked me up form tennis traning. got in the car prety nornal.
then something came up about religion. she said ehile laughing that were not a religos family. then i said especially me. she said i was to apinionated for a 13 year old. and clammed that im not allowed to choose what i belive in till im 18. Evaerthings 18 for my mum. i cant have a say in anything. but i dont want to worship a god i belive that is fake. im an agnostic. she was really pissed about it. she wants to go to church but i dont want to. its a waste of my life. i just hate it. she controls what religion i belive in WTF. SHE cant control what i belive in its my choice....im really pissed at the moment can i please get some good advice.
thanks:(
Mortal Coil
April 17th, 2012, 07:39 AM
Well, honestly there really isn't much you can do about it until you're older; she is your legal guardian and all that.
Just remember that you don't have to worship the god you don't believe in, just deal with it and try to take the path of least resistance out of your childhood.
Giles
April 17th, 2012, 08:42 AM
Your spelling burns my eyes.
Like Alex said, there isn't a lot you can do beyond biding your time until you're of an age when she believes that you're 'ready' to make your own decisions. If you feel like you can talk to her sensibly and show her that you know who you are and what you believe then perhaps that will convince her to change her mind or reevaluate her own opinions, but we can't advise you on how to best go about doing that. She's your mother, not ours.
boosterboy1
April 17th, 2012, 10:08 AM
Theres nothing you can do really, but she is out of place saying that you can't choose what you believe in until your 18. That's out of order and stupid
TheMatrix
April 17th, 2012, 05:36 PM
P101 :arrow: Family and Friends
You'll get better answers here.
boonsim
April 19th, 2012, 10:34 PM
Your mother should not be in charge of your religious beliefs. You should.
My family is a devout Catholic family, except for my mother, stepdad, and I, who are all atheists.
Stryker125
April 20th, 2012, 12:08 PM
Like the others said, there's not much you can do except hang in there until you're 18. As far as the religion thing, she can't make you believe anything.
green
April 21st, 2012, 07:17 AM
Maybe you should worship your English teacher and learn how to spell...anyway with the religion issue. You can not do anything about it.
DerBear
April 21st, 2012, 11:44 AM
Well your 13?
Listen when it comes to religion in family households, It's a general rule that whatever your parents want you to believe in is what your going to do until you are 16-18. As she's your legal guardian she has a right to dictate to you. This is something your going to have to wait out on.
I also know it sucks ass really. I do. However you need to be aware that with age comes freedom and until you have freedom there is little you can do. I know it does not seem right and it ain't but because your mums controlling and your 13 and she's your guardian you just need to go with it.
Sorry I could not help, but it's the option you really have.
p.s I know seeing spelling errors is annoying but this guy is asking for genuine help. So lay off a little.
Silicate Wielder
April 21st, 2012, 12:25 PM
she sounds alot like my dad, I wasn't aloud to do anything without him there, and then when I did get something right but didn't do it the way he wanted me to, he would scold me for it. But then my parents divorced. I've lived alot like you most of my life. But my mom wants me to go to church, I do believe in god and respect him. But I do believe worshipping him is just overkill. but untill your 18 you can't really get you parents to give you full control of your religion and such. Just bare with it and once your 18 and your mom no longer has control of you, you will be a free man. And incase you ever need it, Goodluck.
XxAssasiNxX
April 22nd, 2012, 08:02 AM
Sorry for the poor grammar. i type these posts on my phone and only go and post on my pc when my family is out. this site is my only place to get away from my stupid a hole mum.
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