Is it time…?

[Benz45]

My best friend and I meet at the start of ninth grade. By the start of tenth we became really really really close. Towards the w
End of tenth we started hugging, kissing, cuddling but we never made it official sp we where not Boyfriend/Girlfriend officially but we acted as a real cupple would. Then we get to the start of eleventh grade where we became even more like a cupple we made out a lot I met her family she met mine and she sated that I "make her really really happy" and "I bring out the best in her" and how she loves it when "I make her laugh" and that she "loves me" from then on we both say I love you and all that mushy stuff but we are still not officially boyfriend and girlfriend even though we act like on. The middle of eleventh grade on her brithday I took her out to a fancy place and then we went back to her place and watched a move we started making out amd one thing led to another and after that date I became a man and she a women. I don't regret it and she doesn't regret it she says she "was happy I was her first" because she "loves me like crazy" I also have those same feeling
So
I need your Advice
Should I make it official?
Or not?

HELP

[kenoloor]

I think it depends on a couple things...

1) What will "making it official" change? Will people treat you differently? Will you treat each other differently? Do you want these changes, if any, to occur?
2) Have you discussed this with her? Are you two on the same page on this particular issue? If not, I certainly encourage you to communicate with her.
3) Is there any particular reason that it hasn't been "made official" before now?

I think that if you can answer these questions, you'll have an answer- or at least you'll be that much closer to a decision.

[Smeagol]

Well... you seem to already be boyfriend/girlfriend, at least in the public eye. If you need to clarify that you two are going out, you can do that, but what difference will it make? And, she might consider you her boyfriend already... go ahead and ask but make it casual and not all 'officially' official.

[Solvez18]

To me i think shes answered it for you already by what you have stated.

[JakeRS]

I don't understand why aren't you officially bf-gf? As far as i understood all of your friends know that you are a couple and you have said that you kiss,made love :D,etc. so what is the problem,the only reason someone should hide that in a situation like this is if they are secretly in love,but don't tell anyone,but that is not the case.

[Benz45]

Well at first she didn't want anything to ruin our friendship so we didn't make it official. But sometimes she we introduce me to some of her friends as her "Boyfriend" but a lot of time as her "really close best friend" so i got confused

[Desuetude]

You need to sit down and talk to her about it. Sort out the relationship pure going to have with one another. I wouldnt advice you to ask her to be your girlfriend since she might already think she is and that could be awkward. Be mature about it and think about what's best for you but from what you've said I see no reasons why you shouldnt be together. In a way you already are without having made is official.