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justin101
April 15th, 2012, 11:19 PM
I think im bi, but please explain how you learned that you knew if your gay/bi!
StillurDyl
April 15th, 2012, 11:28 PM
I mean I always thought of guys when I was masturbating, and perfered watching gay guys on tv then straight couples. I guess it interested me more, and I had no feelings for any of my female friends other than being close emotionally. in the end, you don't have to label yourself, just be who you are, and if you want to date or do stuff with a guy or a girl, go for it. just be safe and don't advertise every thought that comes into your head. that's a mistake I made.
KarkatLuv
April 16th, 2012, 12:05 AM
Since I was little I was thinking of guys and girls, when I started puberty I had dreams about guys and girls, but it was only recently that I realised I was bi, I'm still not 100% sure but I'm myself so i'm happy
just be safe and don't advertise every thought that comes into your head. that's a mistake I made.
take StillurDyl's advice to heart, I told one friend and then everyone except teachers and family knows, she even told the guy I liked at the time! As you can expect I wasn't ready for that, but I was lucky and everyone accepted me, the guy I liked dosen't talk to me anymore but what can you do. Just be who you are and life is good :yeah:
lizzard
April 16th, 2012, 12:45 AM
I've posted this before, but I think it rings true:
Sexual preference, in the sense of defining it to a single term, is determined by the gender an individual finds themselves emotionally or sexually attracted to. A person can find themselves sexually attracted to members of the same gender - i.e. enjoying gay porn - while only finding emotional happiness in relationships with members of the opposite gender - i.e. seeking relationships along the lines of dating with girls/boys depending on your gender.
A person can also be emotionally or sexually attracted to people of multiple genders and define themselves as bisexual, pansexual etc.
They may not find any type of attraction for anyone: asexuality.
JackShephard
April 16th, 2012, 01:40 AM
I've always known that I was different from a very young age. I was even friends with guys just because the looked attractive to me in middle school. Of course I didn't know that's why I became friends with certain people, but looking back, I see now how I suppressed the truth. I'm bisexual. I've come to realize this when I was forced to confront it. I couldn't lie to myself anymore, I needed to wake up. I am who I am. I think that my God will understand. It says in the bible, all sins are equal in the eyes of God. And I have already had sex with girls. So acting on my orientation would be the same as doing what I have already done. I'm not here to preach, I just wanted to give a little background on my life. Where I'm at.
You will know if your bisexual or gay or whatever when you confront it. Also, bisexual tendencies can sometimes be just puberty and hormones. So it's rather hard to say. I say I am bisexual because I am attracted to both sexes and can see myself having a relationship with ether a man or woman.
ImCoolBeans
April 16th, 2012, 02:27 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality
mammolito96
April 16th, 2012, 02:35 AM
the first time i realised i might have been gay was when i checked out porn for the first time. woman were not appealing so i searched up naked guys. i was 10 when i did this
wanting.123
April 16th, 2012, 05:18 AM
i dont know what am
PerpetualMotionSquad
April 16th, 2012, 03:55 PM
I always thought I was bicurious until yesterday! Haaha I thought this person was really good looking as a boy and I thought it was pretty suspicious. But I thought it was only bicuriosity. I then wanted a relationship between a couple of guys :P one is with the person who I thought was good looking. And the other guy is in my classes a fair bit. So that's how I knew :D
boosterboy1
April 18th, 2012, 04:46 PM
I've just always felt that I've liked guys and girls and that's how I know
curiosity97
April 18th, 2012, 06:31 PM
I kissed a guy (Well he kissed me) and ever since then i started having an attraction to guys and I've never really done anything with a girl but I do fid them attractive. :D
Skyhawk
April 18th, 2012, 06:58 PM
This is a good example of one part.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tuEaG-buvo
Dimitri
April 19th, 2012, 07:36 PM
I came out to my family a few months ago but in a sense I have always known...
I have always been able to see myself having a successful relationship with either a guy or a girl...
SuckmyToe
April 24th, 2012, 02:44 PM
I dont know how it happened.... I think something just clicked inside me which thought i'm Bi. Obviously other people have different ways of knowing.
Jupiter
April 24th, 2012, 02:48 PM
Unfortunately, I tried to hide from it. But I accepted that I was bi when I realized that it is a big part in who I am and I couldn't deny it.
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