yankeefan7723
April 15th, 2012, 10:52 PM
So my best friend of 3 years (have known him since 5th grade, just haven't been as cool with him since my sophomore/his freshman year) has been dating this girl for roughly three months. During this time her and I have taken a great liking towards each other and I honestly consider her one of my best friends, probably top 5 just because of how much we've talked and shared.
They've always had problems since the start. Constant drama on and off and I was always the mediator and I never minded because I'm good with these things. Then recently earlier this week, it got bad and they split. Later on the same night we were texting and she told me she always wanted to tell me something, but never could because she was dating him. She told me she's always had feelings for me and that we have so much and common and I'm so sweet. She dones't know why she's worrying over this "asshole" when she has someone who "actually cares" right in front of her. Then we texted in book length texts, lol, for like 45 minutes and then talked on the phone for like an hour and a half. The next day we talked for 2 hours. Just recently, an hour. We never talked on the phone exclusively without him in the room. During the texts we just kind of agreed there were feelings between the too of us and we'd agree to kind of keep things calm for a minute. Since then we still text a lot, she sends me a lot pictures (nothing nude, just cute pictures of her) and despite them still having troubles and being on and off, we remain close.
Now during the same time nd more recently tonight he's talking about how he's just ditiching her after prom because he already fucked her. Excuse my bad language btw, it's just what he said. He said he's trying to get it in a few more times before he leaves her and chases other women. Ever since he lost his virginity TO HER, he's acted different. Like he's too great for everyone especially her. He treats like shit. Doesn't care for her problems, is bothered when she tries to call him, and just doesn't care about her meanwhile she's still insanely in love with him despite all the bs.
Then tonight she tells me she got word that he has another gf. He doesn't, but there's this girl he was in love with but never did anything with from last summer. This is the same girl he wants to get with after he dumps her. She's upset, confused, and just not too great these days and it really bothers me he does this to her. I can't sit back while he plays her like this because she a good person who actually loves him and she doesn't deserve it. But if I tell her, prom gets all fucked up.
Should I tell her his plans or just let business take place? I don't want to lose my bestfriend over this, but she's also a really good friend of mine and I can't bear to watch this all go down.
TL;DR version: My bestfriend is planning to dump his gf who has became a good friend of mine after he uses her for sex a few more times. Should I tell her or let nature take it's course?
They've always had problems since the start. Constant drama on and off and I was always the mediator and I never minded because I'm good with these things. Then recently earlier this week, it got bad and they split. Later on the same night we were texting and she told me she always wanted to tell me something, but never could because she was dating him. She told me she's always had feelings for me and that we have so much and common and I'm so sweet. She dones't know why she's worrying over this "asshole" when she has someone who "actually cares" right in front of her. Then we texted in book length texts, lol, for like 45 minutes and then talked on the phone for like an hour and a half. The next day we talked for 2 hours. Just recently, an hour. We never talked on the phone exclusively without him in the room. During the texts we just kind of agreed there were feelings between the too of us and we'd agree to kind of keep things calm for a minute. Since then we still text a lot, she sends me a lot pictures (nothing nude, just cute pictures of her) and despite them still having troubles and being on and off, we remain close.
Now during the same time nd more recently tonight he's talking about how he's just ditiching her after prom because he already fucked her. Excuse my bad language btw, it's just what he said. He said he's trying to get it in a few more times before he leaves her and chases other women. Ever since he lost his virginity TO HER, he's acted different. Like he's too great for everyone especially her. He treats like shit. Doesn't care for her problems, is bothered when she tries to call him, and just doesn't care about her meanwhile she's still insanely in love with him despite all the bs.
Then tonight she tells me she got word that he has another gf. He doesn't, but there's this girl he was in love with but never did anything with from last summer. This is the same girl he wants to get with after he dumps her. She's upset, confused, and just not too great these days and it really bothers me he does this to her. I can't sit back while he plays her like this because she a good person who actually loves him and she doesn't deserve it. But if I tell her, prom gets all fucked up.
Should I tell her his plans or just let business take place? I don't want to lose my bestfriend over this, but she's also a really good friend of mine and I can't bear to watch this all go down.
TL;DR version: My bestfriend is planning to dump his gf who has became a good friend of mine after he uses her for sex a few more times. Should I tell her or let nature take it's course?