Starting and Holding Conversations

[Spence97]

Heres my problem. If im talking with a hot girl or anyone really conversations sometimes just stops from my nervousness and it makes things really awkward. Any tips on how to hold and start a good conversation?

[ImCoolBeans]

Try to remain calm and relaxed when talking to girl. Just think of her as an equal, and don't get too hung up on the fact that she is "hot". Be confident going into it, it will translate throughout the conversation.

[RCT109]

Try to remain calm and relaxed when talking to girl. Just think of her as an equal, and don't get too hung up on the fact that she is "hot". Be confident going into it, it will translate throughout the conversation.

ICB is right just see her as another person and let that work for you
or think of her as a good friend who you could say anything to that really works for me

hope is helped
Shawn

[kenoloor]

Find something that you both enjoy; that way you won't have to bullshit your way through the conversation, and there is a higher likelihood that the other person will be interested in what you have to say.

Ask questions; many, if not most, people like to talk about themselves and what they do. Find out about their hobbies and/or what they do in their free time.

[Smeagol]

Just because girls are hot doesnt necessarily mean that they're worth your time. If you guys have stuff in common you should be able to hold a conversation. If she's in an approachable situation asks her what's up.

[Aves]

I normally just act naturally and be myself, and that's seemed to work for me in the past. Try that. Remember how to breathe too.

[Sonic Boom]

Ask open-ended questions. That way, you won't get stuck hearing yes/no then the awkward silence.

So ask something that will come with a story like "What was the last thing you regret buying?".......Get it?

[ashdyn]

The most important thing is to make sure you're being yourself. Just because the girl is attractive doesn't mean she deserves a different type of conversation lol act normal treat her normally.
Ask her questions about herself that don't usually lead to a yes or no. Make sure you're listening to her and not thinking of what to say next. Find a common interest between the two of you and run with it. Make sure you speak to her with your body too. Project confidence, girls don't even look for it they just naturally detect it. Look at her face/eyes but don't stare, sit/stand straight (but not rigid you want to be relaxed), chin up, smile and laugh it makes her comfortable.
If you are just completely and utterly awkward then I'll really just pray for you lol believe in yourself...you can do it.

[itsthat0n3kid]

always talk about them and what they like. that will keep em talking. (;
-Chris