Form of experimentation?

[pmm98]

First off, the reason why I post this thread in the puberty forms is because I think that it has to do with hormones and all, but lately I went on Omegle and jacked off with other guys and I have made posts about bicuriousity and sexuality and all that before. So pretty much I go about my day to day, don't think about men, wanting to have sex with men, I don't find men attractive in that kind of way, I obviously can tell if someone, man or woman, is attractive or not but Its not in a serious way. I have ZERO emotional attraction or connection with men, no chemistry and trust me, I have made sure of this. It's not there. However, if I see like an underwear model on TV and he has a bulge I will get aroused and than go on a video chatting site? Sometimes I just watch porn, but sometimes, much less often, I will do the webcam. I get off whatever and than its like a really shallow, unfulfilled feeling. It feels good like an orgasm does but it has no depth to it. Its like oh... Is the fact that I can get turned on by webcamming with another guy due to hormones and just teenage horniness and puberty and all that? Thts wht I think that it is because I wouldnt ever do anything with a man in rl, or date marry buy a house whatever. Yet for woman, they also arouse me and I have a deep connection with them and the chemistry is there and i would date, marry, buy a house, have sex etc.

Any advice or thoughts? My main reason for posting is because it is very confusing! If I was bi, or gay, than I would be comfortable with myself regardless! And I just want people to take into consideration if they respond is that I think tht you have to connect with someone to be in a relationship with them, so tht is why I dont think Im bi or gay. Any responses are deeply appreciated! And sorry for the lengthy post!!

[StoppingTime]

First off, I'd cut the camming. Being 100% serious, don't do it. It's illegal, and you never know where it'll end up. Just stop with that.

Anyway, if you don't feel like you could ever have a relationship with a guy, then you've answered your own questions.
The arousal is most likely a passing phase in puberty, but only you can decide.

[Dmtuba]

That's experimenting if omegle is what I think it is.

[McMantis]

just experimenting

[leafgreenangel]

you probably go on video chatting sites because you want to experiment, and you have no one in real life to do that with. I have a theory that if your truly do not know what your sexuality is,then you have to try everything. i have thought myself in circles, and no i'm waiting until i'm 18 then i'm going to try everything. it's just the only solution that i have thought of.

[teenuser101]

Im the same as you dude - not got any feeling towards men but get aroused by bulges and men in tight underwear. I think its just puberty - hormones and horniness and all that rubbish. Doesn;t mean your gay - you're just a teenager!!!

[senior.2013]

As said, it does sound like experimenting in a way, mostly because of the masturbating with males part. Experimenting should be done with someone you trust and know, not with a stranger on a website. You really shouldnt do video chatting because those are all strangers out there, hence the line "...we pick another user at random and let you have a one-on-one chat with each other." You dont know who that person is or if they are who they say.

[gromit]

don't you know that when girls meet someone they look at the face but when boys meet someone they look at the crotch regardless if they are gay or straight.

[Giles]

don't you know that when girls meet someone they look at the face but when boys meet someone they look at the crotch regardless if they are gay or straight.

I believe there was something like that mentioned on QI a while ago - something along the lines of men look directly at the crotch of a lot of animals when they first see them rather than the face.

OP: Most of the people before me have already said that it's most likely just curiosity, and I'd agree. However I have a slightly different opinion about what you did on Omegle, whilst I don't condone it, it's illegal and you should definitely stop. In a way it could be safer than doing something incredibly stupid, like going out and doing it with someone - just a thought. Either way, seriously, don't cam.

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

If you dont feel you can have a relAtionship with a boy then it's obvious your just curious. If u feel u can get into a relationship with a boy that is when you could consider bisexuality.

[Short Circuit]

At least now I know where to go if I ever want to do it on cam!

[ImCoolBeans]

At least now I know where to go if I ever want to do it on cam!

Did you really think that would be appropriate to say in any sense?


This has turned into an inappropriate discussion about camming, which we will not have. :locked: