Freind getting close.

[ZackLolXD]

I have noticed 2 of my freinds like to ughh idk how to put this... Cuddle i guess. Sometimes when i go my freinds house he would ask me to rub his back. I do but idk why i do. And then i will get to a stopping point and then he asks for a little longer i do and then i stop. At night we will sleep on the floor or in a bed(we would do one on the floor and one on the bed but its not fair to the person on the floor, so we do it both on the floor or both on the bed.) and i will wake up and he will be spooning me. i dont mind really because ive gotten used to it. But hes done it everytime we hang out. The other freind will just put there arm around me and get close to me and fall asleep. These 2 freinds are my best freinds and idont mind if they do it but im thinking it has to do with horomones or somthing. Thats why im putting it in the puberty forums. I think at this age everyone is horny often and it causes us to act weird. I love these freinds to death and i dont think that there gay and im not either. We all have girlfreinds. Its just strange. :what: :eek:

[Giles]

Nothing there sounds particularly unusual or strange. Friends want to be close to each other and interact - some people are more tactile than others so they want a relationship to involve a lot of physical contact and they get better responses from physical touch. If you're not like that yourself then it makes sense that you don't fully understand and can't accept why they're doing it - but I am a fairly tactile person so I can see where your friends are coming from.

If it's worrying you then you need to mention it to them and say that you feel a bit uncomfortable, chances are they won't stop or even realise by themselves.

[level_up]

yeah it could be just hormones, but also it could be your friends are actually gay/bi or whatever, so hopefully you would accept them if they turned out to be

[senior.2013]

As Giles said, Some people are more touchy than others, and want a little more contact. Maybe they are going through a curious phase and are trying to express it. If you dont like it, tell them you are uncomfortable with it and you dont enjoy it.

[leafgreenangel]

maybe they are hinting toward experimentation... or maybe they're just physical

[Short Circuit]

Just because your friend "spoons" or cuddles you does not mean there is any sexual intensions. All my friends know that on sleepovers, that is going to happen from me. They accept it, and they also understand that absolutely NOTHING ELSE is going to happen.

[boosterboy1]

It might be hormones or just they are very touchy feely people. Giles summarised it rather nicely

[Stryker125]

Doesn't sound that unusual to me...as the others said, some people are just more touchy than others..I'm kind of one of those people, but I kinda stopped since people usually think I'm wierd..

[Jake777dylan]

Possibly experimenting is on there mind talk to them about it :)

[gromit]

It's called intimacy and it dosen't have to be sexual. It's nice to be intimate with yr mates.

[funinthesun]

if you're fine with him let him. if not tell them to stop

[Mark97]

i like to cuddle with one of my friends when we sleep and he likes it too i dont think theres anyting wrong with it in my opinion