alexa951
April 14th, 2012, 02:05 PM
This is all sooo very confusing and complicated so I'll explain it as best as I can and start at the beginning...
Well we met in the first year of highschool because my friend Alexandra knew him from nursery, and my first impression was that he was a nice guy, but he wasn't hot, u suppose he was 'alright' in the looks department. We were friends since then, but weren't very close.
Before the summer holidays last year, he started talking to me more, and actually showing interest in me. I was so glad of this, but then summer came so we didn't see each other for ages. So, we started talking over facebook, all through the holidays, sharing everything with each other. We would talk up all night until 2am sometimes, we just wouldn't stop. We had so much in common and so much to share.
The messages got to being ended with kisses and *hug*s and we said 'I love you', I wasn't sure wether I meant it or wether it was because I was tired and just being silly. But when we started this school year (third year) and something between us changed, we felt like we were a pair, we were so close. We didn't officialy become 'in a relationship' with each other, either did we tell anybody of our friendship-relationship.
But then he stopped texting me and talking to me, and no matter how hard I tried to get him to talk, or to find out why, I couldn't. My forementioned friend, Alexandra also tried to find out because he's like her brother, but he made a stupid and fake excuse that his mum confiscated his phone and deleted his facebook. Yeah the facbook bit was true, but the rest was clearly fake because while he wasn't texting me, he was texting Alexandra and another two of my male friends!
I got so hung up over it because of my feelings for him and I was angry too. When I was close to dealing with my anger by drinking, I decided to tell his friend who I knew I could trust, that I really wanted to talk to him. Me and this friend sorted out a time and a place for me to talk to him about it. However with his friend and my friend being there as well, didn't help, because it was so awkward and they both kept interfering and annoying us. The furthest me and him got with sorting it out was;
Me - I'm sorry, are you annoyed at me
Him - No!
And that was it. I was so pissed off but he hugged me afterwards, and I love hugs. That was a few weeks ago and we haven't spoken since. However one of my friends was with him yesterday and his friend told me that he had said I was annoying, which is understandable, because I'm always trying to sort this out, but he didn't need to say that because he should know It hurts me.
I'm so annoyed, angry, upset and confused, and I don't know what to do :(
Will somebody help me?
- a
Well we met in the first year of highschool because my friend Alexandra knew him from nursery, and my first impression was that he was a nice guy, but he wasn't hot, u suppose he was 'alright' in the looks department. We were friends since then, but weren't very close.
Before the summer holidays last year, he started talking to me more, and actually showing interest in me. I was so glad of this, but then summer came so we didn't see each other for ages. So, we started talking over facebook, all through the holidays, sharing everything with each other. We would talk up all night until 2am sometimes, we just wouldn't stop. We had so much in common and so much to share.
The messages got to being ended with kisses and *hug*s and we said 'I love you', I wasn't sure wether I meant it or wether it was because I was tired and just being silly. But when we started this school year (third year) and something between us changed, we felt like we were a pair, we were so close. We didn't officialy become 'in a relationship' with each other, either did we tell anybody of our friendship-relationship.
But then he stopped texting me and talking to me, and no matter how hard I tried to get him to talk, or to find out why, I couldn't. My forementioned friend, Alexandra also tried to find out because he's like her brother, but he made a stupid and fake excuse that his mum confiscated his phone and deleted his facebook. Yeah the facbook bit was true, but the rest was clearly fake because while he wasn't texting me, he was texting Alexandra and another two of my male friends!
I got so hung up over it because of my feelings for him and I was angry too. When I was close to dealing with my anger by drinking, I decided to tell his friend who I knew I could trust, that I really wanted to talk to him. Me and this friend sorted out a time and a place for me to talk to him about it. However with his friend and my friend being there as well, didn't help, because it was so awkward and they both kept interfering and annoying us. The furthest me and him got with sorting it out was;
Me - I'm sorry, are you annoyed at me
Him - No!
And that was it. I was so pissed off but he hugged me afterwards, and I love hugs. That was a few weeks ago and we haven't spoken since. However one of my friends was with him yesterday and his friend told me that he had said I was annoying, which is understandable, because I'm always trying to sort this out, but he didn't need to say that because he should know It hurts me.
I'm so annoyed, angry, upset and confused, and I don't know what to do :(
Will somebody help me?
- a