Experimenting

[splash]

Hi, so me and my friend were round mine and we started to jack off together on the bed, comparing and stuff, we then jacked each other off and it felt great!
We met up a few weeks after and we did the same, this time we gave each other blow jobs and we were much on each other and we tried different positions, because we were both curious, now i really want to do it again, but i feel as if im turning gay, i have a girlfriend and everything and i love girls, but is it alright with my mate?:what:

[Thomas52]

i am sure, that is ok. because you are just curious, but...... as you say you have a girl friend and i guess that you love her, so you have to make a decision....you know , if she know it, she will understand it like a cheating maybe.....

[Hunterrrr]

Sure man, it's ok as long as you don't to much, otherwise you kinda pass the straight border haha

[DerBear]

I can't say it's wrong many people do this. I have never and do not wish to but that kinda stuff does not float my boat so to speak.

This is probably just hormones, however if you feel connections towards your friends on an emotional level even when you are less aroused is when you need to have a hard think about your sexuality but for now I would consider this to be arousal.

Another thing to consider is your relationship with your friend. Sometimes it is not uncommon for a friendship to be ruined by experimenting. So this is something you need to be careful of.

I would implore you to consider the possibilities however unless you decide you have deep feeling for this friend, I think this is teenage arousal and nothing more.

[Giles]

If you were single and this happened only once then it would be understandable. However you say you have a girlfriend and that you've done things with your friends more than once all while being with her - so I'd say that you're more likely to be bisexual if you've got that much interest in guys.

[George_Minafer]

While it is perfectly fine to experiment, if I were your girlfriend I would feel like I was cheated on if you're giving/receiving handjobs/blowjobs. I would either end your relationship with your girlfriend or stop it with your guy friend to avoid any revelations that could occur down the road.

[Cicero]

I personaly still think its being curious. I wouldn't advice on telling your girlfriend because if you two break up, she may try to put dirt on you and tell people what you've done with a guy. But if you trust her enough, come clean and tell her. Ask her if she will be ok with you being curious with another guy.

[Regularguy]

Ok I would ge any bjs but if anyone ever tried or asked to give me one o r jack me off I would say fuck yeah

[The captain]

I only jerk off and comparing with my friends but never each other , but if u feel ok, its ok

[DJX97]

Tell you girlfriend everything then see how you feel

[ExhibitG]

i wouldn't go further than that if you have a girlfriend. in fact, i probably would have just stuck to handjobs while having a girlfriend. not because you're "turning gay" or whatever, but just because it is a form of cheating on her in my eyes. if you had foreplay with another girl it'd be cheating, so i don't see why it should be considered anything different with a guy.

as for turning gay, you're probably just still curious. consider yourself lucky enough to have found a partner to actually experiment with haha. i think it starts to become at least bisexual when you realize you are doing it more to fulfill a real attraction instead of fulfilling a curiosity.

[Gravity_boy]

I'm sure that everything is all right. You are just curious and that's normal.

[itsthat0n3kid]

Like everyone is saying, you need to choose between your friend and your girlfriend because what your doing is classified as cheating.
-chris

[curiousme]

its good to expierement dont worry if u both like it just keep on doing it

[senior.2013]

It sounds like youre curious, which happens to most guys during puberty. Being a homosexual means you have an emotional attraction as well as a physical attraction, which it doesnt sound like.

[Liam-NX]

It sounds like youre curious, which happens to most guys during puberty. Being a homosexual means you have an emotional attraction as well as a physical attraction, which it doesnt sound like.

This.

[Jackson1806]

I did the same thing minus the bj's with a friend a few times, we are both straight and like girls but when we're horny and stuff and together we usually end up masturbating and sometimes each other! Would be cool to try bj's though....haha :)

[somanyquestions]

If your gf is into doing that do it with her see if you like it better then decide

[Pink Floyd]

Stop now, stay loyal and faithful to your girlfriend. Giving Hand jobs and Blow jobs to your male friend is just weird..

[MJohn]

Nope. If you like it then........ I have bad news for you bro

[badboy96]

Hi, so me and my friend were round mine and we started to jack off together on the bed, comparing and stuff, we then jacked each other off and it felt great!
We met up a few weeks after and we did the same, this time we gave each other blow jobs and we were much on each other and we tried different positions, because we were both curious, now i really want to do it again, but i feel as if im turning gay, i have a girlfriend and everything and i love girls, but is it alright with my mate?:what:

every 1 trys it its normal

[Tom Stone]

You should at least let your gf know if you're going to be doing that. My gf knows I do and she's cool with it but I know most girls aren't. It's one of the reasons I love my gf so much. :D

[Ddare28]

Like everyone is saying, you need to choose between your friend and your girlfriend because what your doing is classified as cheating.
-chris

Couldn't have said it better.

[Coolcat1314]

dude you are a lucky persone to have a friend like that. i dont think theres is a problem with what your doing.

[Punisher6797]

Yeah its alright, I've expermented with a friend of mine too.

[Brian12]

Hi, so me and my friend were round mine and we started to jack off together on the bed, comparing and stuff, we then jacked each other off and it felt great!
We met up a few weeks after and we did the same, this time we gave each other blow jobs and we were much on each other and we tried different positions, because we were both curious, now i really want to do it again, but i feel as if im turning gay, i have a girlfriend and everything and i love girls, but is it alright with my mate?:what:

Sounds like a lot of fun to me.

[junkymcjunkpants]

Its not gay to experiment but i dont know about the girlfriend. I mean if you do love her and want to stay with her then i would stop experimenting with other guys unless you tell her and see is okay with it but i would be a VERY awkward conversation

[Ben_E]

It's a tricky one, once you go from just J/O in the same room to J/O each other off, you naturally wanna try more cos it felt good. Nothing wrong with experimenting at all, but you are sorta cheating on your GF, if you do anal then its offical cheating in my eyes. The hardest thing is do you just stop doing it or do you tell your GF. It's a tricky one

[jacob360]

I wouldn't take it any further than this. It seems as if you are just experimenting.

[Josh16]

If it's experimenting then it's okay. If you start to hav feelings for him you might be bi. Just hormones so wouldn't worry too much

[BaNd]

there is no reason to feel like your turning gay like the title says experimenting and you may possibly end up being bi but your prolly just curious lol

[Mark97]

comparing and jacking off i think would be fine but actually jacking eachother off and giving eachother blowjobs is going a little far in my opinion thts crossing the line to being gay

[funinthesun]

it soundsl ike you're just having fun with it

[BoyTeen1997]

Not gay just curious

[Kuntaw kid]

Don't let the world change who you are only you know who you are.

[wolfguy]

you might be bi it is where you are with guys or girls it is not that bad relly

[VirtualGuy012]

I think it's ok. Every once in a while. But i think being gay means you are both physically and emotionally attracted to guys

[sms22]

Dude your not gay. Alot of teens experiment with their friends.

[JaredW]

i think its fine as long as you dont do it too often in a strange way, you guys are just curious. you should probably think about stopping if you have a girlfriend though as she probably would not be happy with it!

[chetbonare]

I think it's ok. Every once in a while. But i think being gay means you are both physically and emotionally attracted to guys

Bingo! Curious means you just want to see the body and stuff.. But when you are in "Love" with a guy, then your gay.. If not, your just curious :yes:

[Pepito]

Its fine. As others said before you`re just curious. Don`t over-do it though.

[OregonStateDude]

Sure man, it's ok as long as you don't do too much, otherwise you kinda pass the straight border haha

Exactly. My friend and I fool around but he won't go past jerking me off. He's not gay or bi, so I wouldn't expect him to go to the next level anyways.

As to the girlfriend thing, yeah, I agree with most others here. It's still sort of cheating.

[purpleninjacookie]

Well it is okay to experiment but you have a girlfriend....so your going to have to choose....also...if both you guys are comfortable with it....than it should be alright :)

[Jimbob97]

just the hormones. you decicde if your gay not them

[Sean4U]

My bf and I have a monogamous relationship and don't fool around with others cause that is cheating. Before him I did play with a lot of guys and it was just fun, but when we decided to be a "couple" then stopped with others. Not sure if you have a Girlfriend or just a girl you are dating. As far as if you are gay or not, I would say if you like girls AND enjoy being with this guy you are most likely bi.



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[packer797]

Ok I never have done anything like that I like girls and to answer your question I would say u have Done it one time what ever your experimenting but u have done it more then once so that is kind of pushing it pick who you really want don't got by who gives better blow jobs or what ever go with who u love if it was me I would pick my girlfriend but it's not me so good luck buddie and let us all know how it goes. :)

[Lawrence P]

Hey. Its okay you are just experimenting. It can help people understand themselves and who you are. I believe that people are who they are. You could be bisexual or it could be just a fling. Be careful you girl may think of it as cheating.