girlfriend in room?

[Trinity_15]

mum wont let my girlfriend in my room. how can I get her to let her in my room?

[boosterboy]

Just assure her that your not gonna do anything inappropriate in there, that's all you can do really

[Rayquaza]

Just assure her that your not gonna do anything inappropriate in there, that's all you can do really

Basically, this, and also let her get to know your girlfriend more, so she can establish some trust between her and your girlfriend.

[Giles]

You know your own mother better than any of us do. So you're also the best person to know how to change her mind. Although a general idea could be to just get your mother and girlfriend together so that they can get to know each other better, trust each other.

[Magenta]

Questions for Both Boys and Girls :arrow: Family and Friends

[DerBear]

Well now. I think you know your mum is better than anyone else, so you should talk to her about it.

If you really want my advice. Show maturity and re assure her that nothing inappropriate will happen. Also don't put tons of pressure on her because then she might think that you will do something inappropriate.

Sorry I could not be more help.

[Bath]

Make rules. Like, door always open, or something.

If at the end of the day, her foot is still firm on the ground about not allowing it, that sucks but you really can't do anything about it. Maybe she'll change her mind the longer you two date. Or maybe her mom will allow you in her room.

Only 2 more years until you're 18 though, so :thumbsup:

[Erasmus]

Let your mo get to know your girlfriend more, and if she's polite, and seems nice, ask her again and see what she says. If she says no, she's probably never going to change her mind, which sucks. Have you ever thought of going to her house and going into her room?

[Desuetude]

Yes, let your Mum get to know her, maybe if she see's what a nice person your girlfriend is and starts to get to know her she'll change her mind. Also maybe try spending a few days downstairs in the eyes of your mum so she can see nothing is going on.
Also like Bethany said make some rules like always leave the door open and she might be more willing to trust you sooner if you stick to them. However it is her house and unfortunatley you have to go by her rules, if she doesn't change her mind just suck it up or find somewhere else to go like a park or her house, there must be lots of places?

[Sebastian Michaelis]

Compromise. You get her in the room, and in return you keep the door open and she doesn't stay long. It's just a suggestion, other ideas may work.