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BLbella
April 13th, 2012, 08:25 PM
i was taking a bath and my dad walks in completely naked. then when he noticed i was in the tub and saw my breasts floating there he started to get hard then walked away quickly without saying anything. seeing my father penis made me get a little horny and i dont know what to do. i know this isnt normal. and havnt been able to speak to him since its been a week. PLEASE help!!

cgk101
April 13th, 2012, 08:48 PM
Just bring up a normal conversation with him to get back talking

BLbella
April 13th, 2012, 08:52 PM
its really not that easy. its so awkward between us now

dajuvega
April 13th, 2012, 11:32 PM
i had a sikilar problem for a while after spying on my dad skinnydipping in our pool. it comepletely normal to ge horny at seeing a penis. doesnt matter whos it is. its our bodies response to a naked guy. dont be embarrassed. its not like he knows you got hot. we dont show when it happens. i think hes probably feeling awful that you saw himget hard. i asked my dad about your situation and he says your dad is probably feeling horrid and dirty and terrified that you wont love him anymore. all the same stuff you re going through. my advice is to make an effort to do safe little things to get back comfortable with him and move on. he cant control his reactions anymore than you can. all you can do is decide whether this is worth ending your relationshipover or if its just funny.
and as for the stuff in your mind.... its up to you if thats something you want to keep exploring. its only wrong outside your head

endgame
April 14th, 2012, 01:30 PM
i second pretty much everything dajuvega said.

swisss21
April 27th, 2012, 12:39 PM
Just forget the incidence. Think that the penis you saw was of some other person. Behave normaly. Continue your routine.

ClaireMarie
May 1st, 2012, 03:59 AM
Don't worry, it's normal to get horny at seeing an erect penis. Just continue your routine with him. :yes:

JessDaly
May 21st, 2012, 07:09 PM
Just give it some time

Abnormal
May 21st, 2012, 07:36 PM
Don't worry. Its completely natural that you two got aroused from seeing each other naked. Regardless of blood. I get turned on whenever my sister walks around naked. Its because she's NAKED. Its only human to get turned out by another nude humans. lol

Callie
May 22nd, 2012, 03:36 AM
Don't worry. Its completely natural that you two got aroused from seeing each other naked. Regardless of blood. I get turned on whenever my sister walks around naked. Its because she's NAKED. Its only human to get turned out by another nude humans. lol

:yes:

swimgurl97
May 22nd, 2012, 10:37 PM
dont worry it completly normal

sunsetblur
June 14th, 2012, 03:49 AM
Just give it some time

i agree

missmk
June 14th, 2012, 01:23 PM
Have had similiar situtation and yes its very awkward but you'll move past it, I bet he's more embarassed and shook up by it then you are. Sub contiously i think all girls are attracted to their dads and usually end up with a guy just like their dad in most cases. For him he probably feels ashmed because you're his daughter and he shouldn't be thinking of you that way even if its natural when seeing anyone naked.

The good news is, that you'll both move past it in no time, just be a little awkward at first, and you probably will never have to bring it up in conversation, you'll both just get over it and get back to normal.

lcode
June 23rd, 2012, 07:21 PM
just nevermind and try avoid that kind of situation

elliemay
July 23rd, 2013, 01:46 AM
i had a sikilar problem for a while after spying on my dad skinnydipping in our pool. it comepletely normal to ge horny at seeing a penis. doesnt matter whos it is. its our bodies response to a naked guy. dont be embarrassed. its not like he knows you got hot. we dont show when it happens. i think hes probably feeling awful that you saw himget hard. i asked my dad about your situation and he says your dad is probably feeling horrid and dirty and terrified that you wont love him anymore. all the same stuff you re going through. my advice is to make an effort to do safe little things to get back comfortable with him and move on. he cant control his reactions anymore than you can. all you can do is decide whether this is worth ending your relationshipover or if its just funny.
and as for the stuff in your mind.... its up to you if thats something you want to keep exploring. its only wrong outside your head

I began to notice dads penis when I was about 9/10 when we used the familyroom to change, it wasn't herd but just long and limp and I fantasisied about it and it starteds me masturbating. When we played tickling I felt it sometimes and it was hard.

Reanne
July 23rd, 2013, 01:58 AM
It's very normal for people to be aroused by nudity. As much as you might have felt awkward, it was probably the same for him.

I used to walk in on my step dad when he showered or go to his bedroom when he got out of the shower hoping to sneak a peak :P I think he gave up trying to cover himself as I'd seen him so many times :D

Jenny13
July 23rd, 2013, 10:03 AM
i was taking a bath and my dad walks in completely naked. then when he noticed i was in the tub and saw my breasts floating there he started to get hard then walked away quickly without saying anything. seeing my father penis made me get a little horny and i dont know what to do. i know this isnt normal. and havnt been able to speak to him since its been a week. PLEASE help!!

I think he needs to initiate the conversation and apologize. He probably feels bad and can't gather the courage to talk to you.

honeybear
July 23rd, 2013, 10:15 AM
it may be awkward but it will definitely help to talk about it...it isn't that big of a deal unless you let it become one

Amber Bi
July 23rd, 2013, 11:50 AM
i had a sikilar problem for a while after spying on my dad skinnydipping in our pool. it comepletely normal to ge horny at seeing a penis. doesnt matter whos it is. its our bodies response to a naked guy. dont be embarrassed. its not like he knows you got hot. we dont show when it happens. i think hes probably feeling awful that you saw himget hard. i asked my dad about your situation and he says your dad is probably feeling horrid and dirty and terrified that you wont love him anymore. all the same stuff you re going through. my advice is to make an effort to do safe little things to get back comfortable with him and move on. he cant control his reactions anymore than you can. all you can do is decide whether this is worth ending your relationshipover or if its just funny.
and as for the stuff in your mind.... its up to you if thats something you want to keep exploring. its only wrong outside your head

very well put

Luminous
July 23rd, 2013, 01:43 PM
i had a sikilar problem for a while after spying on my dad skinnydipping in our pool. it comepletely normal to ge horny at seeing a penis. doesnt matter whos it is. its our bodies response to a naked guy. dont be embarrassed. its not like he knows you got hot. we dont show when it happens. i think hes probably feeling awful that you saw himget hard. i asked my dad about your situation and he says your dad is probably feeling horrid and dirty and terrified that you wont love him anymore. all the same stuff you re going through. my advice is to make an effort to do safe little things to get back comfortable with him and move on. he cant control his reactions anymore than you can. all you can do is decide whether this is worth ending your relationshipover or if its just funny.
and as for the stuff in your mind.... its up to you if thats something you want to keep exploring. its only wrong outside your head

yes I agree. it's okay honey it's completely natural, I'm sure he's really upset with himself for getting hard. It's not all on you.

stepht
July 25th, 2013, 06:43 AM
Yeah would have to agree with most of what's been said. He's prob just embarrassed to have gotten hard in front of you though he's gotta realize its nothing to be too worried about it.

You should try to get talking again soon, just any little thing to start off. The longer this goes on sometimes the harder it can be to fix things up.

Candyisyummy
July 25th, 2013, 02:48 PM
It's normal. Guys get hard seeing ANY naked girl. & girls get turned on by naked guys. It's normal! Don't worry, u don't have to talk about it. Just forget it ! Don't worry(: best of luck!

cheerbaby13
July 25th, 2013, 04:53 PM
yeah same has happened to me
he prob feels bad about it or maybe same as you super horny.
he saw your boobs so.... he got hard, thats natural right? just like everyone said here.
you can just do like they already said and aproach him about it.
ask him if he liked it and tell him how you felt seeing him.
its all natural.
just move on after that, it will all be better

kitten13
August 3rd, 2013, 10:55 AM
talk to your mom i'm sure he has. i'm sure she has seen the chage with you two.

emily-candace
August 3rd, 2013, 07:45 PM
My mom has walked in on me twice and just said SHHHHhhhhhhh, hold it down and closed the door. she knew.

ccof97
August 4th, 2013, 12:56 PM
I too have had a similar incident happen and you just have to give it time. Things may be awkward for awhile but eventually you'll be able to talk about it and get over it.

princesscutie
August 4th, 2013, 01:24 PM
Its completely natural and normal. Guys get horny of anything they see lol. I recently saw my mom nude and it aswell got me horny. But I imagine it was one of my friends. So just do the same with your dad and imagine one of your guy friends. Just forgive him and get over it.

But if it gets to be a regular thing where he walks in. Lock the door, and tell your mom after.

trimm_tom
August 4th, 2013, 01:46 PM
normal and natural

graci
August 5th, 2013, 01:38 AM
It'll get better promise

Lost in the Echo
August 5th, 2013, 08:40 AM
This was bumped from last year. Please don't post in old threads. :locked: