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Silicate Wielder
April 13th, 2012, 04:29 PM
Ok, the 1 week anniversary of me and my GF going out is on Monday, I want to make a card since im broke and also don't want my mom to find out I have a GF until shes aloud to date, and I want to respect her. I know what message in it will be but I'm unsure about a title, My best idea so far is "Is it destiny, or is it fate? Either way you are great." I do need help on planning when to draw the card, and my mom is usually visiting what ever room I'm in a lot. I seriously need help on this.
(Currently in a 3 room apartment)

StoppingTime
April 13th, 2012, 04:30 PM
Personally, for a 1 week anniversary, I probably wouldn't even do anything except be with her. I don't know that's just me, but I don't find it necessary until you're more serious about things.

Silicate Wielder
April 13th, 2012, 04:49 PM
Yeah, she said she is going to make a card for me, and I told her "Yeah, I'll make you a card if I can, I just don't have the money and resources." feeling like I should try to make her something too since she is making me something. Things are getting pretty serious already, yet I don't feel like its going too fast but just fast enough. I don't know, I guess every couple goes at a different pace depending on their compatibility.

StoppingTime
April 13th, 2012, 04:51 PM
True. If you feel like it's a good time, then go for it.
Just write something short and sweet if you want; no huge letters or anything. :P

XxAssasiNxX
April 13th, 2012, 06:08 PM
Maybe just go for a walk imstead. alot cheaper and not as crummy romantic. im really glad ur at one week people at my school cant even last 5 dsys. in fact they dont even talk to eachother. so great work
. and anyway dont do anytbing romantic. to preedictible. just fo for a walk in da park. maybe its a good time for a kiss or u wanna wait longee netween u 2

Truth
April 13th, 2012, 06:11 PM
Maybe make her a bracelet or something, if you have the skills to do so.

1 week is not a long time my friend, and I personally wouldn't celebrate it if I had a girlfriend.

Silicate Wielder
April 13th, 2012, 08:10 PM
As I said, I'm broke (Out of money) and I don't have many resources to make stuff with, the best I can do is to make an anniversary card. And also she isn't aloud to go out on dates, her mom wants her to wait untill she is 18 to start going on dates. meaning we can't go for a stroll in the park. Assasin, good idea though.

ashdyn
April 14th, 2012, 01:41 AM
You really don't have to do anything for your one week lol one month yes...one week no. Just go out for ice cream or something nice. I'm sure you can ask your mom for a few dollars for lunch or something lol

Shagrath
April 14th, 2012, 07:48 PM
One week it's nothing...Do nothing except be with her.... I've been with my gf for 15 months and we only celebrate like when we do another month...

Princess Ariel
April 14th, 2012, 07:52 PM
If you want to do the card, do it when she's sleeping.
Don't write something too cliched or anything, after all it's only one week, and you guys want to be at the same speed, not different.

So if you want to do the card go ahead, just make it short and sweet.

Erasmus
April 14th, 2012, 09:12 PM
Personally, for a 1 week anniversary, I probably wouldn't even do anything except be with her. I don't know that's just me, but I don't find it necessary until you're more serious about things.

Yeah, I agree totally.

Josiah7
April 14th, 2012, 09:53 PM
What is with relationships these days? 1 week? You should be expected to get each other anything. Sorry for being blunt, but that's just my opinion.

Thunduhbuhlt
April 14th, 2012, 10:51 PM
Yeah, 1 week is not a long time. Just hang out as if it was just a regular day and just worry about the month anniversaries at the most. Usually you can do something like 3 months, 6 months, 9, 12...like that.

iallen
April 26th, 2012, 12:01 AM
why celebrate a one week anniversary thats really dumb its basically saying oh we lasted a week so i want something

botwa
April 26th, 2012, 07:27 AM
seriously I wouldn't do anything.
maybe a month anniversary is worth it but week? no.

Unknown-Data
April 26th, 2012, 07:47 PM
take her out to a beach and hang out for a while, thats what i'de do

Will Grigg's on Fire
April 28th, 2012, 12:08 PM
I personally wouldn't bother doing much as one week is very little time and is insignificant, but If you want a card made and don't have time, I can make one for you on photoshop :) Just tell me what you want etc.

iloveyou2416
June 6th, 2012, 09:39 PM
no. nothing a week or any week is not enough maybe 5 months and a year is the only time for gifts. My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and never did gifts. The only thing we did was go to a movie and dinner.

TheHumanSpirit
August 3rd, 2012, 12:09 AM
Do whatever you can manage. She'll understand. Try for making your own card though.

why celebrate a one week anniversary thats really dumb its basically saying oh we lasted a week so i want something

Why not celebrate a week? I mean, every day is an accomplishment, and if they can celebrate being together, that's up to them. I don't think there should be an expectation of anything at one week, though. But if she's already mentioned wanting to do a little something like a card, then reciprocation would be recommended.

bigfoot
August 3rd, 2012, 09:11 AM
you're supposed to do stuff on your week anniversary???ooohhh ssshhheeeeeeetttt!!

Kirsi
August 3rd, 2012, 11:20 AM
I think one week hardly even counts for anything but maybe that's just me. My boyfriend and I didn't celebrate anything until our one month anniversary and then it was just that we went on our very first date ever we didn't get any cards or gifts for each other. We also celebrated 3 months and 6 months but we just went on dates for thoes too and then for our one year just recently we got each other gifts nothing special just a card and he also got me flowers.. If you want to make her a card and your able to then go for it but if you don't get around to it I don't think it will be a big deal.
I would also like to add that if she isn't aloud to date she could just tell her mom she is hanging out with a friend/s and then still be with you? Otherwise she might soon want to have a talk with her mom about having more freedom my dad used to say I cant date until I'm 16 but here I am lol.