Hooking up with strangers at parties

[Will Grigg's on Fire]

Hey guys

So I went to a party a few weeks ago and this chick tried to hook up with me and I pulled away because I haven't had my first kiss yet.
All my friends told me that I was stupid for doing it (and I kinda agree :P cos she was hot)
But anyway... I'm going to a party tomorrow and I have a feeling that my friends are gonna try and set me up again... What should I do this time? Should I agree to hook up with a stranger? If yes, then what should I do?

P.S I'm a 15 year old guy :P kinda sad... I know :P

[XxAssasiNxX]

Ur one lucky bastard nevar been asked out once before or even kissed a girl i would have of course said yes maybe toud get rhe first kiss over and out. These things can be fun!

[FullyAlive]

It's really up to you, don't feel pressured to do anything just because of social convention or your friends. If you're comfortable with it then go for it. I probably would myself. But if you'd rather have it with someone else that means something don't think that you can't wait.

[Jupiter]

it worries me that you said no this time and your friends are calling you lame and saying that was stupid. you did what you thought was right. just make sure that you do what you think you should, not what they think you should.

[Gothicdeer]

Yeah stay away from the ladies as long as you can...they trouble (no offense)

[ellen]

if your going to hookup with someone than you should at least know them first

[Truth]

Hooking up at parties = No emotional attachment.

All I can say is, make sure you don't catch anything, and wear a condom.

[XxAssasiNxX]

Hooking up at parties = No emotional attachment.

All I can say is, make sure you don't catch anything, and wear a condom.

Lol yeah i cary about 50...... Not that i need em. lol jk

[Mortal Coil]

Hooking up at parties = No emotional attachment.

All I can say is, make sure you don't catch anything, and wear a condom.

Exactly. Don't catch anything and try not to get her pregnant.
Do it if YOU want to, not if your friends want you to. Trust me though, when you're older you may or may not wish that you'd at least lost it to someone who you were moderately close to, instead of someone who was drunk at the same time as you were.

[LEXI]

if i were a guy i would go for it, whats the worst that can happen?(: and besides YOLO hahaha

[Clawhammer]

Save it for later, lad. Like the saying goes, "cheap sex is crap sex." Now, this isn't sex, I know, but trust me, saving the first kiss for the right person and making it really count for something is a thousand times better, it really is worth the wait. Don't go with some drunken gal who won't even remember your name after a couple minutes, it won't be much fun anyways.

[Buranri]

I'll take the opposite side and say go for it.

Let's consider two situations...

You have your first kiss with a girl you really like. You've never kissed anyone before, and it's really awkward and kind of a mess.

You have kissed someone before, so when you have your first kiss with a girl you like it's not awkward.

Which sounds better?

[spiderdude]

I think you should become friends with whoever your friends try to hook you uP with cause they might be a nice person and after you get to know her then you start a relationship or you could get to know her at the party then just go out some tIme

[Drew5]

I'll take the opposite side and say go for it.

Let's consider two situations...

You have your first kiss with a girl you really like. You've never kissed anyone before, and it's really awkward and kind of a mess.

You have kissed someone before, so when you have your first kiss with a girl you like it's not awkward.

Which sounds better?

This!

[Will Grigg's on Fire]

Thanks guys :) just saying... I'm NOT talking about sex!! Hahah :P just talking about making out and stuff... And thanks for the advice :) by the way... Drinking isnt my thing and I have NEVER been drunk and I'm not planning on doing so any time soon

[Vaulter]

I don't see much harm in just making out with girls at parties, might even get some boobie action and it will probably just raise your confidence when dealing with girls that you actually like. The one downside I can see at all is if you got a reputation as a "manwhore" and the girls you like worry about it, but that's settled with a simple chat with the girl you want to date.

[johnnyd]

Get the experience now so it won't be awkward with a girl you actually like. Hookups at parties are fun and usually don't affect you after the party. Enjoy yourself while you can!

[Truth]

Thanks guys :) just saying... I'm NOT talking about sex!! Hahah :P just talking about making out and stuff... And thanks for the advice :) by the way... Drinking isnt my thing and I have NEVER been drunk and I'm not planning on doing so any time soon Haha if it's not sex, then you shouldn't even be worrying!

If you wanna make out with a hot girl at a party; it'll be one hell of a story to tell.. but it's cool too if you want to spend your time waiting for the right girl (I dunno, that girl doesn't come around very ofen.)