young bullys...

[XxAssasiNxX]

Who had somewone buile them at a young age badly. i did and it caused anger and depression that changed me from that age. the buile was vey bad it went from prep to year 5. it changed me and then i statrted to bully alot of people.anywone had the same kind of thing

[stew4rt]

I was bullied for a long while (10 years), it's made me angry inside.
It started the year before year one(reception)(5 years old) and was a constant thing, it happened every day and I just went to school every morning knowing I was going to get picked on, knowing I couldn't do anything about it. I never took it out on anyone else but I feel the anger inside of me now but still hide it. It It has changed me a lot, I haven't any self confidence, I avoid speeking to people especially large groups and don't trust anyone not even myself as I'm affriad of doing something wrong.

[Desuetude]

I was bullied in year 3 (around 8 years old) it got so bad that I moved schools in the middle of the year. I think it probably did change me, at the time I had no friends (they all ditched me when the bullies started picking on me) and I got very self consious about my looks and my intelligence. I started trying less so then they wouldn'y pick on me for coming in highest.
I never turned to bullying others though I may have starting picking on my sister because of it. I don't know whether that was the cause or part of the cause of my anger and things but moving schools had a big impact on my life so it must have in some way.
Though I've been picked on my whole life that was one of the worst cases I've had and at the youngest age as well.

[Truth]

When younger, I had quite a lot of bullies. Then I snapped, and I stopped taking shit... those bullies regretted being rude to me for their remaining time at that school.

[XxAssasiNxX]

I was bullied for a long while (10 years), it's made me angry inside.
It started the year before year one(reception)(5 years old) and was a constant thing, it happened every day and I just went to school every morning knowing I was going to get picked on, knowing I couldn't do anything about it. I never took it out on anyone else but I feel the anger inside of me now but still hide it. It It has changed me a lot, I haven't any self confidence, I avoid speeking to people especially large groups and don't trust anyone not even myself as I'm affriad of doing something wrong.

Mines still goin on even though he acully made me think i was his freind. he builled me and wasant a good freind just a prick. im in year 7 now and hes rhe type of kid that hangs around the wrong audience. anyways i forget ro tell this lasy year one day we decided lets bring our yu gi oh decks tmoro and play. we dis after school. then it started they started stealling eveeyrhing and stuff. then i went straight up to him and started screaming at him like i had never ever done. he didint listen. he didit get it. then i was just abour to grab his throat and choke him me best freind stoped me. we walked away. i started crying even though it should have been the opisite way around. i cound controll my emotions or anger inside. if my freind dindint stop me that kid would have been in hospital and i may have been expelled. i was that angry. and hes stoped now. well u know hes realised that ill fight back now i wont do nohing like a kid. anyway ur srory relivates closely to mine a d just wanted to spread this story. have u had a story likerh this anyway? also i came to school and get pushed around. They were the days that changed me. even my freind used to help him. and that was the only freind i had then. i now i have some of rhe greatest freinds evar

[stew4rt]

Mines still goin on even though he acully made me think i was his freind. he builled me and wasant a good freind just a prick. im in year 7 now and hes rhe type of kid that hangs around the wrong audience. anyways i forget ro tell this lasy year one day we decided lets bring our yu gi oh decks tmoro and play. we dis after school. then it started they started stealling eveeyrhing and stuff. then i went straight up to him and started screaming at him like i had never ever done. he didint listen. he didit get it. then i was just abour to grab his throat and choke him me best freind stoped me. we walked away. i started crying even though it should have been the opisite way around. i cound controll my emotions or anger inside. if my freind dindint stop me that kid would have been in hospital and i may have been expelled. i was that angry. and hes stoped now. well u know hes realised that ill fight back now i wont do nohing like a kid. anyway ur srory relivates closely to mine a d just wanted to spread this story. have u had a story likerh this anyway? also i came to school and get pushed around. They were the days that changed me. even my freind used to help him. and that was the only freind i had then. i now i have some of rhe greatest freinds evar

I never really stood up to them, I just took I know I shouldn't have because although I pretended it didn't hurt, it really did, inside. Howver when I did throw it back in their face (this happened once) it made me feel good and they backed off, they reduced their aggression and eventually I became friends with a few of them in the group. Everyone always says don't take it into your own hands but from my experience whenever I told anyone nothing was done about it. Don't become the bully though and go too far. Next time they start at you again take it for a couple of seconds then throw something back at them, intimidate them a little, if they escelate, you escelate but stay below their standards that way if a teacher sees what is going on they will see that they are culprits.
If the bullies are left they won't go away, they never get bored they are occupied by tormenting you, they will only get worse unless they are stopped. If you cannot do it alone get some support, when it started hapening to me my friends wouldn't help me so I looked around to see who else was suffering and befriended them, although we never took revenge our secret group plotting about what we wanted to do gave us strength and support and helped us all to keep a stronger mentality through the bad times.

[XxAssasiNxX]

I never really stood up to them, I just took I know I shouldn't have because although I pretended it didn't hurt, it really did, inside. Howver when I did throw it back in their face (this happened once) it made me feel good and they backed off, they reduced their aggression and eventually I became friends with a few of them in the group. Everyone always says don't take it into your own hands but from my experience whenever I told anyone nothing was done about it. Don't become the bully though and go too far. Next time they start at you again take it for a couple of seconds then throw something back at them, intimidate them a little, if they escelate, you escelate but stay below their standards that way if a teacher sees what is going on they will see that they are culprits.
If the bullies are left they won't go away, they never get bored they are occupied by tormenting you, they will only get worse unless they are stopped. If you cannot do it alone get some support, when it started hapening to me my friends wouldn't help me so I looked around to see who else was suffering and befriended them, although we never took revenge our secret group plotting about what we wanted to do gave us strength and support and helped us all to keep a stronger mentality through the bad times.

EXACTLY!!when the yeachers and even my mum tryd to council us both he never listened. just pretended like he would stop either make up crap or not listening. what they say to you and what everywones dont take it into ur own hands is bullshit. they wont listen u have to stand up to them yourself or nothing will be done...:D

[stew4rt]

EXACTLY!!when the yeachers and even my mum tryd to council us both he never listened. just pretended like he would stop either make up crap or not listening. what they say to you and what everywones dont take it into ur own hands is bullshit. they wont listen u have to stand up to them yourself or nothing will be done...:D

They don't understand, and they don't know the hell we experience. They don't realise just talking to the bullys will have no affect, that they have to take more aggressive action.

[Stryker125]

I got bullied for a while in elementary school. I ended up with mild depression...later on, when anyone would tease me or anything it had way more of an effect than I think it would most people...

Anyway I've got barely any self confidence now, and I'm really shy. When I talk to girls I don't even think about the possibility of dating them, because why would they ever wanna date me?

Even though I'm shy most people can't tell since I'm always telling jokes and being "flirty" n stuff...really I just do that so no one notices how terrible I feel all the time.

[Short Circuit]

I get bullied every single day at school, been happening since I was six, am now 14. i expect it to stop when I leave school. I get punched, kicked, spat on, and name calling.

[stew4rt]

I got bullied for a while in elementary school. I ended up with mild depression...later on, when anyone would tease me or anything it had way more of an effect than I think it would most people...

Anyway I've got barely any self confidence now, and I'm really shy. When I talk to girls I don't even think about the possibility of dating them, because why would they ever wanna date me?

Even though I'm shy most people can't tell since I'm always telling jokes and being "flirty" n stuff...really I just do that so no one notices how terrible I feel all the time.

same except for the jokes

[stew4rt]

I get bullied every single day at school, been happening since I was six, am now 14. i expect it to stop when I leave school. I get punched, kicked, spat on, and name calling.

I know how feel, best if you can bring an end to it before you finish school that's still a long time to get bullied and it will hurt more the more you take!

[stew4rt]

Dylan, have you made any progress, have you been able to make any changes to your situation? If not, I'm sorry and I hope someone can help you. Has my advice been helpful in any way? Have you been able to put it into good practice or not and if so has it made it better or worse or not made a difference?

[XxAssasiNxX]

Dylan, have you made any progress, have you been able to make any changes to your situation? If not, I'm sorry and I hope someone can help you. Has my advice been helpful in any way? Have you been able to put it into good practice or not and if so has it made it better or worse or not made a difference?

Yeh im getting there im not getting builed like i was in primary school but im making progress. Im just having a few rough pqtches lately so its been tough like.. rejecion,people treating u like u dont exist and all sorts of shit. but othere than thqt im gettin there!

[Ambrosia]

Depression:arrow:Abuse

[commikid]

I got bullied for a while in elementary school. I ended up with mild depression...later on, when anyone would tease me or anything it had way more of an effect than I think it would most people...

Anyway I've got barely any self confidence now, and I'm really shy. When I talk to girls I don't even think about the possibility of dating them, because why would they ever wanna date me?

Even though I'm shy most people can't tell since I'm always telling jokes and being "flirty" n stuff...really I just do that so no one notices how terrible I feel all the time.

You sound a bit like me to be honest man:/ when I was in junior school I used to get it all the time off the same few kids (some were older than me) and the one day I had a big group of them confronting me along with quite a few people that I took to be my mates :( so I stood up to the ring leader told him that I couldnt be less scaired of him really ( I was. terrified at the time) and he ended up punching me straight in the face and broke my front tooth straight in half and its still like that to this day. That kid has ruined my appearence for life! And ever since that I realised... Why let these assholes do what they want? And what is the worst thing that could happen if you stand up to them? NOTHING! Yeh you might get beat up but when they know you arnt scaired of there pathetic attempts to upset you it has an effect on them :) if you in the situation where you know there is going to be a fight either get out of there asap or deal the first punch as it will startle the bully. I really feel for people that are being bullied because its never as easy as just telling rhe teacher and its all okay :/ .... feel free to contact me if you need to chat or want an oppinion :)

[beplubber24]

Depression:arrow:Abuse

No, I think this thread belongs here because it was the abuse that started/triggered the depression. I don't think this thread should be moved.

[stew4rt]

Yeh im getting there im not getting builed like i was in primary school but im making progress. Im just having a few rough pqtches lately so its been tough like.. rejecion,people treating u like u dont exist and all sorts of shit. but othere than thqt im gettin there!

all progress is good, I hope you're rid of it soon

[stew4rt]

I get bullied every single day at school, been happening since I was six, am now 14. i expect it to stop when I leave school. I get punched, kicked, spat on, and name calling.

You could try some of the things I've suggested in other comments, hope they help, I experienced bullying everyday for 10 years and that's mainly why I want to help you and others, if my suggestions do not work though I hope someone can provide you with a solution to the attacks. DO NOT just let it go by although in my experience you have already felt the worst of it during these 8 years; nothing anyone does anymore is such a shock (or that was how it was in my case) however I didn't get physically bullied.
P.S. sorry this was late I should have responded earlier, my bad.

[stew4rt]

Anyone who was bullied in their past once it's stopped and you're mind has settled from the attacks(not meaning healed) talk to your friends about it, it does help and if the experience has affected your mental stability(you'll know if it has) then although I haven't done this because I don't want my parents to know what I've been through you could visit a councillor/physiatrist and talk through everything.

[XxAssasiNxX]

No, I think this thread belongs here because it was the abuse that started/triggered the depression. I don't think this thread should be moved.

Yrleh exactly this thread is focusing on copping with bullying and about the depression parr of it so i agree it should go back to depression loss and greif!

[Truth]

Anyone who was bullied in their past once it's stopped and you're mind has settled from the attacks(not meaning healed) talk to your friends about it, it does help and if the experience has affected your mental stability(you'll know if it has) then although I haven't done this because I don't want my parents to know what I've been through you could visit a councillor/physiatrist and talk through everything. I would never get over it if I allowed myself to get bullied. I would prefer a broken nose, bloody face, and broken knuckles as long as I got the bully back for what he's done.

It's not like anyone else is going to stick up for you if you don't.