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Short Circuit
April 13th, 2012, 03:09 AM
For the past couple of weeks, I have been seeing a girl, but the only time she wants to see me, is when she wants sex. OK, some are going to say "lucky git", but I think she is using me.

I have only just come out of a relationship that was my longest so far, (just over 6 months) and we used to say "I love you" lots, but this girl just sends text like "I want it now" and when we have finished, she leaves or tells me to go home.

So am I just being used?

Mortal Coil
April 13th, 2012, 03:10 AM
Yeah, I reckon you are. Tell her how you feel, cause it sounds like a very irritating situation to be in and she honestly sounds like not a very nice girl in general.

Desuetude
April 13th, 2012, 03:14 AM
I think you are. Don't let her treat you like this, try talking to her, ask her what she wants out of the relationship or something. Tell her how you feel and make a decision whether to break up with her or not because she doesn't sound very nice.

ashdyn
April 13th, 2012, 10:30 AM
I would say you're lucky lol but if I were in this situation I'd be feeling pretty bad too. Tell her how you feel man. Make sure she knows you care about her and aren't just in it for sex. I could see a lot of guys having a hard time giving up a free and often hook up but if you're not in it for a hook up then tell her. If she has a heart then she'll either treat you better or break up with you. If things don't get better then do her a few more times and dump her lol

TeddyBearRock
April 13th, 2012, 10:32 AM
I think so, what you should do is stop having sex with her, if she dumps you, she only wanted sex