How Can I Get Over Lovesickness

[TaylrJ]

Just to start out, I am a guy, and right now bicurious. I am 14 and I like this guy who is 13. I have liked him for 3 months now. Posting question after question on "How to Deal With Liking Him" or "Could he be gay" (you can even go through them if you want).. I don't think he is far enough into puberty to notice being gay, but I do. Since he is at the beginning of puberty he is real immature. Probably not taking a relationship seriously. I just thought we would date in the near future if I would end up being bi, which I probably will. He is moving schools at the end of this year. I just give up. He won't like me back and with him leaving, I am so depressed. I get in the weirdest moods at school too. Anxiety, depression, being anxious, and not being able to focus. He is the only thing I think about and sometimes I want him to move already so I will eventually stop liking him.. How am I going too see him when summer gets here? I am going to be even more depressed then. I think I really need help right now. Instead of loving him, I think I am more obsessed with him. I am just so sick of crying all the time and it hurts so bad. What's is weird though, no body would ever think I am like this. Mostly at school, I am normal and fit in well. But at home, away from him. I cry and lately I have been feeling like I have to puke.. What is going to be worse is knowing the last day of school may be the last time I ever see him. I really love him and don't know how I am going to be without him this summer. How can I deal with this? Thanks.

[Gothicdeer]

I loved this one girl for a year and 6 months...I cried for her and felt horrible...I screwed things up one day and I still feel love sickness...sigh...I know how ya feel

[Carlyle]

This thread seems familiar, did you make this once before? Anyways, you might want to tell him how you feel before he leaves. I know its sad when someone you're attracted to moves away, but them knowing would take a load off your shoulders. Best of luck

[Noxail]

When me and my once ex now not ex boyfriend broke up, I lost twenty pounds, feel into the deepest depression of my life, my self harming went up the wall crazy... the list goes on. I don't even remember six to seven months of my life, it was all so blurry, so trust me, I know how you feel. Don't let your feelings go un-noticed. Go talk to him. If he tells you he's straight, your lovesickness will hurt more, but you'll have some form of closure. If he is Bi/Gay You two can become closer and/or date and you'll have no reason to be lovesick. It's a win/win situation. :yes: I'm hoping for the best ~Holli

[Drew5]

I'll be following .this thread, kinda similar. I crush on people who I can't have.