boonsim
April 12th, 2012, 08:51 PM
So, this is kind of old news for us, but I think it's still a problem.
The people in the situation are as follows (abbreviated for privacy's sake):
Me - me ("I" is not another person, it is me!)
L - my best friend
H - another friend of mine
J - H's ex girlfriend
K - J's ex best friend
I never saw H and J as a happy couple. In fact, they broke up early this year. In early March, J hatched a plan to get H back. See, J is a bit crazy, so her idea was to seduce H into sex with her. She purchased some condoms online and they came to her house. Her parents found them, and she got into a lot of trouble. Then, her parents called K's parents to complain about J. K found out and immediately stopped being friends with J, calling her trash and immoral. Afterwards, Ks parents called H's parents. This was a really difficult moment for him as he had to explain to his parents that he wasn't having sex with J. K broke the news to L and me the next day. When J found out that K told us, she had had enough. She told us she was going to kill herself. This left the group divided:
K and I were really concerned for her safety.
L and H were being complete assholes about it.
In the end, she said she was never going to commit suicide, and evidently she never did. Problem solved.
Or was it? J now has no friends. I mean that literally. I feel sorry for her and want to include her in the group again, but K, J and L all hate her now.
So what do you think I should do? Accept that J is gone, or try to change the others' minds?
The people in the situation are as follows (abbreviated for privacy's sake):
Me - me ("I" is not another person, it is me!)
L - my best friend
H - another friend of mine
J - H's ex girlfriend
K - J's ex best friend
I never saw H and J as a happy couple. In fact, they broke up early this year. In early March, J hatched a plan to get H back. See, J is a bit crazy, so her idea was to seduce H into sex with her. She purchased some condoms online and they came to her house. Her parents found them, and she got into a lot of trouble. Then, her parents called K's parents to complain about J. K found out and immediately stopped being friends with J, calling her trash and immoral. Afterwards, Ks parents called H's parents. This was a really difficult moment for him as he had to explain to his parents that he wasn't having sex with J. K broke the news to L and me the next day. When J found out that K told us, she had had enough. She told us she was going to kill herself. This left the group divided:
K and I were really concerned for her safety.
L and H were being complete assholes about it.
In the end, she said she was never going to commit suicide, and evidently she never did. Problem solved.
Or was it? J now has no friends. I mean that literally. I feel sorry for her and want to include her in the group again, but K, J and L all hate her now.
So what do you think I should do? Accept that J is gone, or try to change the others' minds?